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Hello Boys and Girls! I Have Boy Troubles.

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Posted 02-23-2011 at 02:21 PM by Cat Stark

My ex-boyfriend texted me today and I do not want to deal with him again. I do not really know what he wants. He broke up with me. I have no interest of going out with him again.
As I have said in earlier blogs, I like someone else now. I have not asked them out yet, but I plan to when I see him again.
I have moved on with my life, started to look and found someone new. Why is he now wanting to talk to me? I do not have feelings for him anymore.
I went back to him once and I just got hurt again. That is not happening again. I tried to work twice and he dumped me both times. Why would I put in the effort just to get dumped again? I have no idea what he is thinking. Whatever I am over his bull. I have a life to live.

Now for the part that really matters. I have no idea how I am going to ask the guy I like out. He has a lot of reasons to say no. We both do not have the time. He has less then I do. After a few days from now we will not even have a class close to each other, let alone on the same day. Also, he is about to graduate from college and I am just starting. But the biggest point is that at some point in the next few years, hopefully, I will be going to New York for school, then maybe move there. I do not think he would be willing to move that far.
But that is if he says yes, or if we last that long even if he does say yes.
I know I am just phycing myself out of it, but I will do it the next time I see him.
You see after that if I do not ask him or he says no I will most likely not see him again. So I lose either way. So there is nothing to gain by not asking him. I am backed into a corner. Is that not sad? If I ask him out and he says yes it will be a lot of work. If he says no or I do not ask him I might not ever see him again. Why does this always happen to me? Life hates me. All I can do now is ask him and hope it is worth what comes next. I do not know if I have the nerves to do this.
Wish me luck!
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    Ex's are stupid really. I bet anything he feels stupid for breaking up and know that you like someone else he sees you as attainable again. That's how some guys are. It could be other reasons. Although about your new guy. I say..try. You never know what will happen until you actually try. If he says no, well there are other fish out there. I know it's hard i'm not saying it's an easy thing to just move on, but it's not the end. Life is just a bitch. If she bites you in the ass, just kick her down and say no you can't bring me down! But good luck with whatever you decide to do.
    Posted 02-26-2011 at 08:27 PM by ShadowSama ShadowSama is offline
 

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