Goth for sexual kinks.
 

Does anyone here find the whole goth thing, not only visually pleasing, but as a real sexual turn on!?!? I do. x

Yes, I do completely. ALOT.

Not really. I just like the clothes and some of the music, but not for sexual reasons really.

It gets me really turned on. Me and my bf are goths, and by god we take it into the bedroom. This sounds horrible, but I once did an "excorsist" with a crucifix down there ... hehe i'm bad.

No, and actually, it turns me off a little bit.
Goth fashion isn't attractive to me, really.

Okay, Uni, here's what you do... douse yourself in gasoline, then take a gun and shoot yourself in the head.

Sentences should never begin with "this sounds horrible, but....."

It's like those sentences that start out, "I'm not racist, but..."

Somehow, I'm not surprised...And you do realize that this is baiting from a troll, right?

Some of the various styles we host can be beautiful but a turn on is REALLY stretching it and the topic as well as how they display them often cross into outright exploitation.

How can it even go beyond aesthetically pleasing?

I mean, I really dig goth chicks, but I would say all kinks I can think of at the moment are either fetishes or BDSM related.

That these are things (some) goths enjoy doesn't make them goth.

In any case, it's not the clothes. It's how they're worn, and whose wearing them.

Or "I don't mean to offend you, but....."

One thing I never got was "goth sex"...when people explained it to me, it always sounds like run-of-the-mill S&M.
Goth sex should be doing it doggy style with Bauhaus playing while whoever is being railed reads aloud Poe or something....

Why? You barely know me.
And yeah, I've heard she's a troll.

All I can say is...YES. ;)

Jabbing yourself in the fanny with a crucifix isn't goth. Has nothing to do with goth and hopefully never will be goth. It is however spectacularly idiotic, and really quite dangerous if said crucifix is metal or has any pointed or protruding edges/stones ect. If it isn't a crucifix shaped sex toy you could seriously damage your flange.

its okay calm down it was a plastic one. And I didnt jab it in literally, I just rubbed it around, like a dildo only with the crucifix.

Hahaha! That reminds me of this:

"Goth sex: having sex in a bed with black satin bedsheets, illuminated by dribbly candles, while quoting Nietzsche and Byron at each other. With someone getting up every 70 minutes or so to start 'Floodland' playing again."

Hell yes. I attend the goth clubs in SoCal mainly for dancing, but equally to find someone (though it is proving difficult from trying to either A.) dance with a girl or B.) just talk to them). Any girls want to give me a few pointers?

don't be shy and just go up to her. A woman likes a man with confidence. x

I'm not sure if I'd gag if someone recited Byron to me in bed or if it would just have to be really angry sex.

Hahaha funny. x

well uni, I would love to meet that girl. Unfortunately those girls are far and few here in SoCal for they feel that only the horny or desperate try that route (which is not the case for me). Still working on the dance approach...

Awww my baby *hug for u*. You will find someone soon, don't worry. x

Sorry, wasn't trying to make it seem like complaining and thank you for the hug (Im a polite goth, how odd....). But if anyone has tips *wink* *wink*

I love these threads. They make me smile.