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Forum: General 03-03-2013, 12:32 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
It's not just a topic of discussion, it matters a...

It's not just a topic of discussion, it matters a lot to me. It matters a lot to me because I want to help trans people. I fight for everyone who is oppressed in our social system.

I wish you...
Forum: General 03-02-2013, 09:51 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
No no! I'm quite ready to admit when I am wrong...

No no! I'm quite ready to admit when I am wrong or misinformed! I'm never embarrassed when an inconsistency is addressed in my arguments. I just don't think my beliefs are wrong.
I feel a little...
Forum: General 03-02-2013, 07:42 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Saya: I don't think anyone owes me an...

Saya:
I don't think anyone owes me an education. I wasn't asking for a gender lesson, I was asking what you guys think. Well in all honesty I was asking you specifically about terminology because...
Forum: General 03-02-2013, 06:13 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Saya: I understand that this stuff is painful...

Saya:
I understand that this stuff is painful but I don't think I should have to bear the brunt of their anger because I am one of the many, many people who feel differently than them about the...
Forum: General 03-02-2013, 05:07 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
: | I'm sorry that my questions seem to be...

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I'm sorry that my questions seem to be really upsetting people. I don't believe in cis-privelege but it's more an etymology problem than anything else. I think some people here are assuming that...
Forum: General 03-01-2013, 05:37 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
The questions I'm asking aren't part of an...

The questions I'm asking aren't part of an agrument. I really want to know the answers and I thought you guys could help me out. I wish Saya would appear again because she knows so much about trans...
Forum: General 02-27-2013, 07:09 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
I've known quite a few people with...

I've known quite a few people with disassociation, body dysmorphic disorder or gender dysphoria (the thing joining them all being a disconnection from outside perceptions of themselves) and none of...
Forum: General 02-26-2013, 08:37 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
There's no reason for me to be patronising to...

There's no reason for me to be patronising to you, you haven't said anything offensive to me at all. I was being completely literal in asking what was said that you agreed with. I'm really sorry it...
Forum: General 02-26-2013, 07:28 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
.___. I completely empathise with people who do...

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I completely empathise with people who do not feel happy in their bodies but "nature's horrible, horrible mistakes"? I'm going to grow a sense of humour and assume you're being facetious. heh....
Forum: General 02-26-2013, 04:40 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Alan: You sure showed me! lol. It's not so much...

Alan:
You sure showed me! lol. It's not so much an argument anymore as it is a discussion of terms. Unless you are agreeing with their side of the earlier argument about subversivekawaii in which...
Forum: General 02-26-2013, 06:05 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Ok so this must be where I'm confused. So sex is...

Ok so this must be where I'm confused. So sex is defined by the appearance of the genitals and the hormones present within the body? I thought it was scientifically agreed upon that chromosomal...
Forum: General 02-26-2013, 04:04 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Saya, just jumping in here but I have another...

Saya, just jumping in here but I have another question (of millions). I don't understand what sex identification is. Well, I know that it means to identify with a sex but how do you do that? Gender...
Forum: General 02-24-2013, 08:49 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Saya answered my question to Solumina and...

Saya answered my question to Solumina and Solumina answered my question to Saya! You two are joined at the hip! Hahaha : )

Solumina:
I've read a lot of Trans people writing lately that gender is...
Forum: General 02-24-2013, 03:23 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Do you believe that gender is a social construct,...

Do you believe that gender is a social construct, Saya? Or do you believe it is innate? Just so I know if we're on the same page here.
Forum: General 02-23-2013, 10:16 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Shit I accidentally deleted my comment lol ...

Shit I accidentally deleted my comment lol

Solumina: I would love to hear about your experiences with queer-only spaces!

Murder.Of.Crows: My issue was definitely not with how trans-friendly the...
Forum: General 02-19-2013, 12:22 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
"We hold ourselves up to be the "real" women who...

"We hold ourselves up to be the "real" women who are more deserving of any resources that are set aside for women, saving it only for ourselves despite the fact transwomen may be more needy. We feel...
Forum: General 02-14-2013, 03:52 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
It's really complicated. I don't think transwomen...

It's really complicated. I don't think transwomen represent the patriarchy but a lot of women believe that since they grew up knowing male privilege then that places them in a different group based...
Forum: General 02-14-2013, 02:22 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Saya: One thing that I'm confused about in...

Saya:
One thing that I'm confused about in regards to the "cis-privilege" that is being refereed to is that as far as I know, privilege means one class oppressing another to benefit the former. I...
Forum: General 02-13-2013, 10:14 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Hahaha I've never thought about disney genitals...

Hahaha I've never thought about disney genitals before. Fish/dolphins have vaginas though, just throwing that out there heheheh.

I don't think women are defined by their vaginas at all. The term...
Forum: General 02-13-2013, 05:14 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
I know it got lost in my confusing ranting before...

I know it got lost in my confusing ranting before but I did really like the creative femininity-questioning. I was lamenting that the often very well intentioned but often inevitably failing ...
Forum: General 02-13-2013, 02:17 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
I feel exactly the same way! My issue is exactly...

I feel exactly the same way! My issue is exactly with those sentiments. They are troubling to me.
Could you tell me what separates the blog's content/theme from the ideas you mentioned? I know there...
Forum: General 02-13-2013, 01:57 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Yeah, I totally understand why you're focusing on...

Yeah, I totally understand why you're focusing on me rather than what I'm saying if you don't know where I'm coming from. That can really help out with getting through difference to understanding and...
Forum: General 02-12-2013, 09:40 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Saya: I'm totally and genuinely sorry you...

Saya:
I'm totally and genuinely sorry you experienced that. I hope that you were supported by family and friends and that you received help though there is never sufficient help available or even...
Forum: General 02-11-2013, 01:20 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
I'm just going to say it again so that it might...

I'm just going to say it again so that it might stop be being said to me. I don't think women can not be angry or have violent feelings. I don't think they shouldn't be able to express that on the...
Forum: General 02-11-2013, 01:12 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
How can you talk about the privilege of someone...

How can you talk about the privilege of someone you don't know anything about? All you know is that I'm female. Any other idea you've gleamed from my words is pure speculation. The only really...
Forum: General 02-10-2013, 04:30 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
I'm not being bugged by the gender tropes. What. ...

I'm not being bugged by the gender tropes. What.
What's bugging me is that this is all very FUN isn't it? Fun fun fun fun. I think I'm a little too radical for this.
I walked in here and said "I...
Forum: General 02-09-2013, 11:36 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
I think I missed the part where the posts were in...

I think I missed the part where the posts were in response to people who sexually harass women on the street. I thought they were rallying responses to women's oppression generally.

I get the...
Forum: General 02-09-2013, 03:40 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
That reply was to ape descendant, by the way....

That reply was to ape descendant, by the way. Saya, you are a fast typer!
Forum: General 02-09-2013, 03:39 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Yeah, I do know what you mean about the venting I...

Yeah, I do know what you mean about the venting I agree I agree I agree it is venting. When I said the cutesy characters promising violence infanticises their idea, I meant it in the way that they're...
Forum: General 02-09-2013, 05:10 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Heh, from what you've said so far we don't...

Heh, from what you've said so far we don't disagree at all. We both think that gender roles are not innate and yet we both believe that women should be allowed to enact them in any way they'd like to...
Forum: General 02-08-2013, 06:21 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
I'm not afraid sexists are going to be offended....

I'm not afraid sexists are going to be offended. I am not an apologist. When bigots get offended they think more and that is great.

I don't dislike the blog. I don't dislike their posts or what...
Forum: General 02-08-2013, 04:26 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
When I said you were doing "a lot more harm" it...

When I said you were doing "a lot more harm" it was an expression. I was empathising with you because you were treated horribly and I was mocking your attackers for viewing your actions as harmful....
Forum: General 02-08-2013, 03:27 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
"The focus should be to how can one be feminine...

"The focus should be to how can one be feminine or butch or neither in revolutionary ways. How can we avoid being so in patriarchal ways?"

I'm sorry, Saya, I don't agree at all. I don't think the...
Forum: General 02-08-2013, 05:22 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
Hmm. Telling women they don't have to do...

Hmm. Telling women they don't have to do something is not the same as telling them they are forbidden to do so.

If some people have told you that you can not dress a certain way then that was a...
Forum: General 02-08-2013, 12:37 AM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
The ratio of people telling women to be girly...

The ratio of people telling women to be girly versus the people telling women they don't have to be weighs heavily on the former. What I'm saying here is that "fighting to be feminine" because...
Forum: General 02-07-2013, 11:21 PM
Replies: 93
Views: 16,427
Posted By Languor
I don't know how I feel about this stuff. Talking...

I don't know how I feel about this stuff. Talking about maiming people isn't progressive.
Also, I would never say that a woman who acted "feminine" was anti-feminist, I'd wait to hear her politics....
Forum: Spooky News 01-08-2013, 03:49 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 8,934
Posted By Languor
get off the internet dad no one wants your pizza

get off the internet dad no one wants your pizza
Forum: Introductions 12-31-2012, 02:59 AM
Replies: 5
Views: 2,785
Posted By Languor
Archaeology must be amazing to study. My mum...

Archaeology must be amazing to study. My mum studied it when she was young and went on digs in Israel. So cool.
Forum: Introductions 11-26-2012, 07:32 PM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,229
Posted By Languor
Sorry for the late reply, Fists. I draw and...

Sorry for the late reply, Fists.
I draw and write my own stuff but I haven't finished anything major. Unfortunately I'm kind of in the red at the moment so I'm spending a lot of time trying to find...
Forum: General 11-05-2012, 07:51 PM
Replies: 15
Views: 4,319
Posted By Languor
I can not fully express how little I ever want to...

I can not fully express how little I ever want to see a 'women for sale' ad ever again. What kind of mouth breathing turd burglar do you have to be to think that the slave trade is an...
Forum: Spooky News 11-05-2012, 07:47 PM
Replies: 25
Views: 8,934
Posted By Languor
I'm a little skeptical about a lot of paranormal...

I'm a little skeptical about a lot of paranormal experiences.
We'd be foolish to assume that we knew all there is to know about how the world works; every year we're learning more and more about...
Forum: Introductions 11-02-2012, 07:54 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,229
Posted By Languor
aww =w= <3

aww =w= <3
Forum: Introductions 11-02-2012, 07:32 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,229
Posted By Languor
I'm female but it doesn't come up much in...

I'm female but it doesn't come up much in conversation usually, ha ha.
I'd like to say I make comics for fun but it's most often painful. I think I need to get out more.
Forum: Introductions 11-02-2012, 02:13 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,229
Posted By Languor
Thanks for the welcome. : > I'm glad this place...

Thanks for the welcome. : >
I'm glad this place exists! I didn't know about it until recently. I Used to hang around VampireFreaks and similar forums when I was a teenager but they're not what they...
Forum: Introductions 11-02-2012, 12:33 AM
Replies: 11
Views: 3,229
Posted By Languor
from my clay

Hi, Spookies.
My name is Sleeps, I'm 22, live in Australia and I make comics.
I like feminism, goths, vegan food, comics and books.
I was an art student but I'm taking a break because I just...
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