09-09-2008, 06:58 PM
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#202
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Heaven and Earth
Posts: 2,606
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
I'm ok with that.
They are.
In what way is that relevant?
I wasn't really concerned with your replies to me, but thanks for taking the time to tell me all of this.
Also, I have no desire to be any nicer than I am, because you might notice I'm not actually all that mean. If you recall, I never insulted you.
Allllso, I do consider people's feelings before opening my mouth. I don't think most of what I say is that hurtful.
If you're hurt by me saying you're wrong, that's a problem within yourself.
You either disagree and move on because you believe strongly that you did right, or you agree and so there is no conflict.
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If someone tells you that what you said hurts them, then it hurts them. You aren't challenging them in a helpful way at that point, or really thinking about them at all; you are only focused on yourself, and how -you- would deal with the situation.
You've had more than one person tell you that sometimes the things you say...or, more to the point, the way you put them...is less than helpful, so why do you continue in such a behavior?
You are always wanting others to drop everything and change the way they are instantly. Why not do the same, and actually be considerate of others for a change? It can't be THAT hard to be compassionate. :/
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