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Well it has to do with the background your Husband(s) were raised in,I'm not blamming it all on their up bringing,the blame does lay squarely on their shoulders more than anything.
Just let him know how you feel,tell the guy he dirted the same dishes,and enjoyed the meal,you cooked it the least he could do is show respect and either help clean up or do the clean up by himself.
I may not be the poster child for relationships but even I know it takes respect for each other to have a lasting healthy relationship.
Let him know how you feel on the subject at hand.
And that if he isn't willing to help out, refuse to do the cooking and cleaning for him,when he asks what the hell,tell him what's up.
(Drops two pennies in the jar)
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