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PrInCeSs 0f G0tH · 04-20-2009, 12:23 PM

..... and not come off as a total asshole?

I've been seeing this guy for just over a month and I just don't feel anything for him. He is really really nice and basically everything I'd want from a partner but there is just no spark for me. I've been waiting for something to just click but now I know there isn't going to be any clicking and I have to break it off.

I don't want him to hate me and I'd love to stay friends but it's heading to a serious place now and I can't be intimate with someone I'm not in love with.

The thing that makes it worse is that I only said I'd go on a date with him to force myself to stop thinking about another guy whom i love more than myself.

So basically this guy I don't have feelings for him...how fucked is that!

I want to hide under a rock. I never EVER thought I'd have to break up with someone. help!

04-20-2009, 12:23 PM	#1
PrInCeSs 0f G0tH Join Date: Apr 2009 Posts: 52	How do u break up with someone.... ..... and not come off as a total asshole? I've been seeing this guy for just over a month and I just don't feel anything for him. He is really really nice and basically everything I'd want from a partner but there is just no spark for me. I've been waiting for something to just click but now I know there isn't going to be any clicking and I have to break it off. I don't want him to hate me and I'd love to stay friends but it's heading to a serious place now and I can't be intimate with someone I'm not in love with. The thing that makes it worse is that I only said I'd go on a date with him to force myself to stop thinking about another guy whom i love more than myself. So basically this guy I don't have feelings for him...how fucked is that! I want to hide under a rock. I never EVER thought I'd have to break up with someone. help!