[Alan]

Then you don't know Despanan enough, nor have you given him a chance in like six months.
He was a dick about giving PoC and women a place in OWS, but I, who haven't been butthurt ever since have seen his big change ever since.
It's not even a good change, and it's not a good change because it's a change in the direction you're pushing him. He walks with his tail between his legs when it comes to you two. That's bullshit. The very fact that you can push him this much is due to the fact that he allows himself instead of dipshits like Jonathan who won't listen (and thus need this shit the most) and you just give up.
You ain't making anyone better. You're looking for weakness and attack misguided compromise. You're literally bullies.