[Murder.Of.Crows]

Originally Posted by ape descendant

I usually just go with the pronouns that line up with one's presentation, which factors in dress, hairstyle and name.

If some one is in the sgm community and I can't tell one way or the other I'll ask which pronouns one prefers.

Did you find any cool gender neutral pronouns? My favorite is zie/zir (I've got a thing for the letter z). In practice I end up using they/their/them in general conversation especially if I haven't had my coffee yet.

Generally the way i go about it.