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Originally Posted by Miss Absynthe
I've run into this sort of thing through my life so many times - once by a counsellor who tried explaining to me that because at that time my only sexual encounter with a male had been non-consensual which didn't count, then I was a virgin.. silencing both the fact that something had been stolen from me and the fact that I'd had years of amazing sexual encounters that I should be happy and proud about. I also find it especially prevalent in the D/s community.
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I'm curious about that. I'm not into kink right now but some things about it are appealing to me, but whenever I ask questions about problems and issues in the kink community I find a lot of kinky people act like there's none at all and BDSM is the answer to sexism in relationships.