Thanks Rockand Rose...
Vampirekitten, I hate to be like this, but that's not true. I think you're one who only has a superficial understanding of the culture. The music is only neccessary to be part of the "scene", and there are plenty of people who like goth music without being goth.
Holey crap, it's goth with a sledgehammer time...
http://blood-dance.net/goth/grant.html