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Originally Posted by Miss Absynthe
People keep telling me how easy it is for submissives to find someone, so there must be something terribly wrong with this picture. :P I see it a lot as well with people I know bouncing from one "dominant" to another while they do everything they can to keep the submissive happy and bow to their will instead of leading the dynamic.
I very occasionally get people expressing interest before I get told that I'm too intense and just need to relax and have some fun, and it isn't really easy to relax about things when you hear that over and over.
The game gets old really quickly, and I don't have patience for bullshit.
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I can imagine the frustration. It is difficult to find a perfect match that you play well with - but if you do, you should stick to it. I have a friend, we hang out more as vanilla than not, but when we play, I think it's great.
Oh, btw Miss A, lookie at what two of my vanilla friends gave to me for my birthday 
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