[Solumina]

oh come on now is there really any need for a bitch fight over this?

Yeah illusions should really try to work on being a little less preachy but hey if one of the older members had made that exact same post I doubt that anyone would have said anything about it. We just don't know her well and so the post kind of came off as really bitchy but I doubt that was the intent and we would have known better if we knew her a little better.

On the other hand, Illusions, the reason that older members are treated differently is that we know them and are far better at understanding the tone of their posts based on what we have learned about their personality. Most if us were flamed a little when we first got here (I got my ass handed to me a few times and I was fairly polite) so don't take it too personally, and try to learn from it (read: don't change who you are but learn what kind of tone you are projecting and maybe work a little on that)