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Saya · 03-13-2012, 07:42 PM

I'm still in camp DTMFA because that was a seriously dickish thing to do to you, but also, from my experience, when a person wants to explore their sexuality, some have a really promiscuous stage, and I'm sure trying to figure gender out isn't helping either.

I think it would be kinder for both of you if he just did his own thing without endangering your own health or feelings. He's not being a good person, and he should go work that out, and then when he's mature enough to handle a respectful relationship and know what he wants and who he is, then a relationship isn't so hard. But doing it secretly like that behind your back is really shitty, super unfair to you, and it isn't going to get better until he straightens himself out, and that could take a long time.

03-13-2012, 07:42 PM	#13
Saya Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 9,548	I'm still in camp DTMFA because that was a seriously dickish thing to do to you, but also, from my experience, when a person wants to explore their sexuality, some have a really promiscuous stage, and I'm sure trying to figure gender out isn't helping either. I think it would be kinder for both of you if he just did his own thing without endangering your own health or feelings. He's not being a good person, and he should go work that out, and then when he's mature enough to handle a respectful relationship and know what he wants and who he is, then a relationship isn't so hard. But doing it secretly like that behind your back is really shitty, super unfair to you, and it isn't going to get better until he straightens himself out, and that could take a long time.