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This dude sounds like a total tool (it irks the shit out of me when people bug me for my things and don't ever pay me back or return the favor). Seriously, be open and talk about your feelings because this guy's probably not a mind reader and if you don't express what you need from him in a relationship, you only have yourself to blame for your unhappiness.
I hate freeloaders. Boy needs to man up and get a fucking job. And if he's not willing to do his part to make the relationship work, dump his ass. More importantly, if *you're* not willing to do your part (open, direct communication, etc) to make the relationship work, you might as well end it because if you linger it will only cause more pain and strife in the end.
As far as dating the other dude goes, go with your gut feeling. If you feel like it's a bad idea, don't do it. Listening to your instincts is generally the best option...if something doesn't feel right, it's probably best to not do it.
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