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Originally Posted by Saya
I'm curious about that. I'm not into kink right now but some things about it are appealing to me, but whenever I ask questions about problems and issues in the kink community I find a lot of kinky people act like there's none at all and BDSM is the answer to sexism in relationships.
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Of course there would be problems and issues in kink. It's not exclusive to kink or necessarily more prevalent, and the explicit boundaries are meant to avoid those issues.. but there are dickheads in every group, and you do often get the sleazy predatory types allowed to continue in the goth or kink communities.
I think the denial that it could happen ever is due to there being an existing belief in vanilla communities that kink=abuse, and the organisers of munches not wanting kink to be stigmatised further.