Sorry to refresh this thread, I just wanted to let you guys know I've finally had a chance to get back on here and read it.
Great stuff, I really appreciate all your feedback and opinions. Except you Elystan, if you think a thread is so retarded why bother commenting on it? Don't bother answering that, it's subtle advice I'm hoping you'll pick up on rather than a question.
A big thanks again guys. This has given me good material to nudge my boyfriend in to thinking a bit more about what he is saying before voicing opinions like that.