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03-30-2007, 12:28 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Cumbria, United Kingdom
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I Hate My Mate!!!!
UGH!!!! My mate tells everyone who I fancy and it pisses me off SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO much, today she told my best mate that I fancied him, and she thinks he fancies me, so now I can't talk to him without going mega red, making him believe her more, AND I can't ignore him, and all he did was say my eyes look nice, so does he fancy me??? Any opinions?????
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*growls a bit then calms down*
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03-30-2007, 12:33 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Massachusetts
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Are you in middle school, by any chance?
I don't mean for that to sound like an attack.
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03-30-2007, 12:33 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Canadia
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Well.. if he's your best friend, talking about it shouldn't be an issue provided that you are both mature.
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03-30-2007, 12:57 PM
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Um, I don't know what middle school is I'm not American, I'm 14 - if that helps??? I'm mature enough, but he isn't and neither's my other friend who'll nudge me so much I'll look like I'm a victim of child abuse.
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'The difference between false memories and true ones is the same as for jewels: it is always the false ones that look the most real, the most brilliant.' - Salvador Dali
Pie Jesu domine..... Donna eis requiem - *thwack*
'To become truly immortal, a work of art must escape all human limits: logic and common sense will only interfere. But once these barriers are broken, it will enter the realms of childhood visions and dreams.' - Giorgio de Chirico
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03-30-2007, 01:05 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2007
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Originally Posted by LiUsAiDh
Um, I don't know what middle school is I'm not American, I'm 14 - if that helps??? I'm mature enough, but he isn't and neither's my other friend who'll nudge me so much I'll look like I'm a victim of child abuse.
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If he isn't mature why waste your time?
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03-30-2007, 01:15 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Minneapolis, MN
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14 is middle school-aged.
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If ruff it was of dame
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Of immortality
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03-30-2007, 01:18 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Amidst a shallow grave
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Well, I'm 14 and am in high school.
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03-30-2007, 01:56 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Minneapolis, MN
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And is this considered average, or are you the exception?
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A SPIDER sewed at night
Without a light
Upon an arc of white.
If ruff it was of dame
Or shroud of gnome,
Himself, himself inform.
Of immortality
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03-30-2007, 02:24 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Nassau, Bahamas
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I'm having the same problem right now. However, one good thing about this situation is that you didn't have to tell him yourself, which is the hardest thing to do. Don't worry about blushing everyone does it, its beyond your control so don't stress about it. What you need to do now is ask him if he feels the same about you (without your friends around). If he doesn't, it will hurt but you'll come to accept it and will be able to move on. Sooner or later.
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03-31-2007, 04:34 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Australia. Finally back home.
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I can't speak for bleedingheart because I don't know where they live but, in Australia, 14 is High School aged.
Since we don't have Middle School, Primary School is grades prep - 6 then straight into High School which is years 7 - 12.
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03-31-2007, 04:36 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: Amidst a shallow grave
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I'm in the states, I'm just one of the young ones.
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03-31-2007, 05:05 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2003
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AAAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
have you tried sitting your mate down and having a little chat with her about how you feel, or are you just not that good of mates?
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I was wrong to come here, so im leaving with a very big FUCK YOU. Maggot, fuck you. You elitist piece of shit. lol
hah, elitist of a message board. LOLOLOLOL!
with love,
G.j.c.
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04-03-2007, 12:44 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Cumbria, United Kingdom
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Well, I don't want to lose him as a friend, but my friend who is trying to set me up with him is kinda making it so I can either A) be his girlfriend. or B) never talk to him again. Since the last time she tried this on she's still nudging me about it a year later  .
And yeah, I have tried talking to her about how I feel - and she just said "Aww, you so do fancy him, thats so cute!" :s.
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'The difference between false memories and true ones is the same as for jewels: it is always the false ones that look the most real, the most brilliant.' - Salvador Dali
Pie Jesu domine..... Donna eis requiem - *thwack*
'To become truly immortal, a work of art must escape all human limits: logic and common sense will only interfere. But once these barriers are broken, it will enter the realms of childhood visions and dreams.' - Giorgio de Chirico
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04-03-2007, 12:50 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Nassau, Bahamas
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Why is never talking to him an option?
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04-03-2007, 01:02 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Cumbria, United Kingdom
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'Cause that avoids all future embarrassment!
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'The difference between false memories and true ones is the same as for jewels: it is always the false ones that look the most real, the most brilliant.' - Salvador Dali
Pie Jesu domine..... Donna eis requiem - *thwack*
'To become truly immortal, a work of art must escape all human limits: logic and common sense will only interfere. But once these barriers are broken, it will enter the realms of childhood visions and dreams.' - Giorgio de Chirico
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04-03-2007, 01:42 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2007
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I'm not sure I understand your problem. Your friend is telling another friend of yours that you're crushing on him (which is true, right?). If you like him ask him how he feels about you. If you don't like him you just need to tell him that what your friend is telling him is not true. Avoiding him will just make things more difficult and cause you to loose a friend.
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04-07-2007, 04:51 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2006
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Originally Posted by Magpie_Tendencies
I can't speak for bleedingheart because I don't know where they live but, in Australia, 14 is High School aged.
Since we don't have Middle School, Primary School is grades prep - 6 then straight into High School which is years 7 - 12.
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In Tassie it's kindergarden - 6 for Primary, 7 - 10 for High School then 11-12/13 for College. Buuuuut no one really cares. Just putting that out there.
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04-07-2007, 07:24 AM
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Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: San Diego, CA. USA
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Originally Posted by GothGarl
I'm not sure I understand your problem. Your friend is telling another friend of yours that you're crushing on him (which is true, right?). If you like him ask him how he feels about you. If you don't like him you just need to tell him that what your friend is telling him is not true. Avoiding him will just make things more difficult and cause you to loose a friend.
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I agree. If he's a good friend of yours, I don't think it's a wise choice to stop talking to him just to avoid embarassment. Do you really wanna lose a freind that way? It's not worth it. Just be honest with both of them. Tell the one to stop telling people personal things about you and tell the other guy exactlly how you feel. If I were you and my friend kept telling other people things about me even after I told her not to, I would stop being friends with that person, because to me, real friends don't act that way and they should respect you. Anyways... good luck, hope you work things out. 
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04-25-2007, 10:07 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Cumbria, United Kingdom
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Now I feel a bit better.....
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'The difference between false memories and true ones is the same as for jewels: it is always the false ones that look the most real, the most brilliant.' - Salvador Dali
Pie Jesu domine..... Donna eis requiem - *thwack*
'To become truly immortal, a work of art must escape all human limits: logic and common sense will only interfere. But once these barriers are broken, it will enter the realms of childhood visions and dreams.' - Giorgio de Chirico
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04-25-2007, 10:48 AM
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So, you like him and he likes you, what's the problem?
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04-25-2007, 12:22 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Harlem
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...I'm going to say it. Hurry the fuck up and grow up.
I'm sorry, I don't remember ever doing this kind of thing when I was 14.
It's real damn easy. He likes you, you like him. Date each other, get it out of your system, and then break up. It's fairly standard, love.
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04-25-2007, 12:59 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Belgium
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Aww, how pure and innocent it was all back then. Don't get things too complicated, they will get complicated soon enough. Watch out with dating friends tho! Had some bad experience there myself.
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04-25-2007, 01:06 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Los Angeles
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Sounds like someone's got guy-trouble. Hell... and 14 I didn't even have friends, let alone a "mate". Just take it easy, cull the drama, and enjoy yourselves.
Basically what everyone else said on this thread. Capiche?
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05-08-2007, 01:38 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Cumbria, United Kingdom
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Im not having 'guy-trouble' Im just stressing about my friend who's trying to set us up, Im fine not dating him because thats cool, but KontanKarite - that sounds a lot like using him....... Which I dont want to do...
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'The difference between false memories and true ones is the same as for jewels: it is always the false ones that look the most real, the most brilliant.' - Salvador Dali
Pie Jesu domine..... Donna eis requiem - *thwack*
'To become truly immortal, a work of art must escape all human limits: logic and common sense will only interfere. But once these barriers are broken, it will enter the realms of childhood visions and dreams.' - Giorgio de Chirico
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05-08-2007, 01:44 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
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Oh for Gods sake. I've had the hots for my best mate for over a year, she knows and everyone knows, we tried going out once and it didn't work so we just get on and flirt occasionally, why make such a bloody fuss over something so trivial as this? I mean, he fancies you, you fancy him, so not talking to him just so you can avoid a red face is 8 year old logic.
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