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04-16-2009, 03:35 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Lansing, Iowa. Come visit me, yes, no?
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How to make friends.
This sounds sooo desperate and needy.
Basically I have a good few friends, but all of them i've been friends with since I was really young. I have never made any new friends really.
Please post your tips for making new friends.
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04-16-2009, 05:44 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
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Initiate conversation with topics like:
-fetishes, sex with crucifixes, etc
-animal abuse
-how everybody hates you/how messed up you are
If that doesn't work, you can fall back on the "fuck you, assholes" and hate lists.
Okay.. that's all out of the way, flaming and ridiculous arguments may commence.. NOW!
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04-16-2009, 06:19 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Lansing, Iowa. Come visit me, yes, no?
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Korina5555 I thought we were cool? wtf is up with all of the hate? I have you on aim Korina.
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but someday i'll steal your car and switch the gears
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04-16-2009, 06:30 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Massachusetts
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First of all it's Korinna. If you're such great friends, why don't you even know her name? Second, just because you know her AIM SN doesn't mean you're friends.
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You ain't no punk, you punk; you wanna talk about the real junk?
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04-16-2009, 06:49 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
Location: the concrete and steel beehive of Southern California
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The Mag speaks truth, however, I must add that Uni has learned to control her reaction to criticism. In the past, a comment like Bela's would have evoked an explosion of vehemently corrosive replies. Uni's response in this thread demonstrates massive self control and discipline compared to a year ago. She has matured.
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04-16-2009, 07:11 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Lansing, Iowa. Come visit me, yes, no?
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It's okay everybody me and Korinna are cool now. ILY baby. x
and thank you so much HumanePain. This is what I wish to demonstrate to everyone. I think though, attitudes are changing towards me as a whole. People are beginning to realise that being so nasty is just not acceptable. I hope that in time, attitudes will continue to change.
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but someday i'll steal your car and switch the gears
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04-16-2009, 07:33 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Massachusetts
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No, people are getting used to your presence, and giving up on getting rid of you. At least that's what's happening if G.Net's the same as it used to be.
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You ain't no punk, you punk; you wanna talk about the real junk?
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04-16-2009, 07:53 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Athens, GA
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Protip: don't talk about piss.
Protip: don't show them your numerous hate lists.
Protip: don't beat them down with your bag.
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"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you" The Bible (Matthew 7:12)
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04-16-2009, 07:59 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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Humane, do mature people swing from the extremes of being pissy that everyone in the world isn't Catholic and then idiotically bragging about have rubbed a crucifix on her vajayay?
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04-16-2009, 08:08 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
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She isn't really what one would call mature but she has progressed quite a bit since she first got here, I believe that was the point HP was trying to make.
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04-16-2009, 08:19 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: In Antarctica with the Penguins
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Wait... who are you talking about maggot? I only see you, HumanePain, Pyre, Korinna, Solumina, and Ophelia in this thread... O_o
-hint-
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04-16-2009, 08:21 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
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She can make friends. She just wont make them here. At least by those that matter.
As for making friends, it's kinda simple: Present yourself as friendly and NOT desperate.
It works for me.
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Not all beliefs and ideas are equal.
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04-16-2009, 08:29 PM
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Solumina
She isn't really what one would call mature but she has progressed quite a bit since she first got here, I believe that was the point HP was trying to make.
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Eh...a different flavor of crazy idiot child is still crazy idiot child to me.
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04-16-2009, 09:08 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: Harlem
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
Eh...a different flavor of crazy idiot child is still crazy idiot child to me.
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I concur entirely.
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04-16-2009, 09:45 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Athens, GA
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What about strawberry flavor? I might make an exception.
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"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you" The Bible (Matthew 7:12)
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04-16-2009, 09:49 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2006
Location: Massachusetts
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr E Nigma
Wait... who are you talking about maggot? I only see you, HumanePain, Pyre, Korinna, Solumina, and Ophelia in this thread... O_o
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Owned!
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04-17-2009, 05:39 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2007
Location: Osaka, Japan
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Quote:
Originally Posted by KontanKarite
She can make friends. She just wont make them here. At least by those that matter.
As for making friends, it's kinda simple: Present yourself as friendly and NOT desperate.
It works for me.
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Good advice. Too bad Uni's the proverbial swine to cast your pearls before.
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04-17-2009, 11:18 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2006
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Solumina
She isn't really what one would call mature but she has progressed quite a bit since she first got here, I believe that was the point HP was trying to make.
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Yes, thank you for explaining, I didn't word it the best way I suppose.
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04-17-2009, 11:35 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Nowhere
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Originally Posted by Unimatrix 00
This sounds sooo desperate and needy.
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Gee, now why could that be?
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04-17-2009, 12:17 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Heaven and Earth
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Uni: There's a book that might be helpful to you. It helped me immensely in relating to people and getting to know them. It's called How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. It's a little dated by now, but I have found most of the advice to be timeless. =)
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04-17-2009, 12:31 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: In the Desert
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Move to a new city, and start fresh. Leave the battery acid in lansing, and any other thing you could use to harm a person.
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04-17-2009, 01:44 PM
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Join Date: Sep 2008
Location: England
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Most people like talking about themselves, ask leading questions.
You could also try joining things like societies or groups that do things your interested in.
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04-17-2009, 02:01 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
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I met all of my fellows at the balnea; there's no better place or time for socialising than when you're wallowing in your own dirt. Engage them with conversation that they are interested in. You are a woman, so you won't be able to talk about interesting things like the gladiator battles and so on, perhaps you could discuss the woes of social subservience, or how difficult it can be co-ordinating slaves? I'm sure that there would be many willing to lend an ear at the forum.
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04-20-2009, 01:08 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2009
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bwahahahaha...she comes here and ask h0w t0 make friends???very funny k0z here i cant see any0ne wh0 w0uld accept t0 be friend with s0me0ne....even t0 welc0me s0me0ne they just swear 0n and star t0 insult o_0
wierd!
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04-20-2009, 01:22 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Uranus ( Luxembourg )
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It depends entirely on what people you wish to associate with.
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