What an ass of a boyfriend

Shyantra · 03-01-2007, 01:20 PM

Before I go into swearing mode let me tell you what happened. My boyfriend calls me up this morning around 8. After we exchange hellos, he says "Beth has expressed interest in me and I want to go out with her. So that means I am dumping you." And then he fucking hangs up! What conflagrant (sp) guy!

I swear! If I come across another guy, no, excuse me, a person! who tries to pull that in my eye's view I will tear there fucking head off!!!!

killer_asian_Dax · 03-01-2007, 02:36 PM

At least he was honest. Stop bitching. It could have been worse.

bleedingheart344 · 03-01-2007, 02:51 PM

Whoa, chill dax... this is the whining thread, after all. Be that as it may, it was still an insensitive way to approach things with her.

killer_asian_Dax · 03-01-2007, 03:46 PM

I wasn't trying to be insensitive. But really. It could have been worse. He could have invited her to dinner with his new and pregnant girlfriend and aske her to come to their wedding. Try that one.

bleedingheart344 · 03-01-2007, 03:49 PM

Sorry Dax, I didn't mean that you were being insensitive, I just meant that her ex was being insensitive.

HumanePain · 03-01-2007, 04:05 PM

Shyantra: I am sorry you had to listen to such an inconsiderate phone call. But it is his loss, because I have seen your pictures: you are beautifully feminine and attractive. I have read your posts: you are kind, witty, and cheerful. So I can say through experience that he is not only making an a$$ of himself by demonstrating lack of consideration, but he is losing out on the catch of his lifetime! His loss. Free hugs if you want one.

Shyantra · 03-01-2007, 04:19 PM

Thanks HP! I will totally take a hug.

Mir · 03-01-2007, 04:22 PM

Heres one from me.

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 03-01-2007, 04:27 PM

Have a hug. That was a horrible thing for him to do.

*Hugs*

Mirazatha · 03-01-2007, 04:30 PM

Thats... rediculous. Thats one of the things that someone should Just Not Do as a human. Have a cookie and hug. *offers both*

Shyantra · 03-01-2007, 04:48 PM

Thanks everyone for your support. ::smiles sheepishly::

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 03-01-2007, 04:49 PM

You're welcome.

*Here's another Hug*

HumanePain · 03-01-2007, 05:16 PM

Awww Crimson, you have the biggest heart of all Gnet!

Shyantra, here's my hug: ::HUG::

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 03-01-2007, 05:29 PM

Awww, thank you Humane.

And here's another hug for you Shyantra. *Hugs* I'll bake some cookies for you too if you'd like.

Shyantra · 03-01-2007, 07:15 PM

I would like cookies. Just make sure they have heads. I love you all gnetters.

wishcat · 03-01-2007, 07:51 PM

Aww sweetie I'm sorry to hear that. That guy is an ass, but like HP said, it's his loss.

*Offers a hug as well*

::HUG::

Crying_Crimson_Tears · 03-01-2007, 08:24 PM

*Bakes Cookies*

*Sends Cookies*

Hopes you enjoy them!!!

Shyantra · 03-01-2007, 08:30 PM

Oh I will! Thanks CCT for the cookies. *imagines Matt's head and bites it off*

That made me feel better.

I think Ill go clubbing with a couple of friends later to see if they can cheer me up (or as they put it unsober me).

ArtificialOne · 03-01-2007, 08:44 PM

At least she wasn't hit with the dreaded dumping by text message. Hm.. I wish I had breakups like that.. I usually have very passionate relationships that end in big arguments......

Good riddens to him. If he doesn't want to be with you then out to the trash with him. Nothing worse than someone moping around with you because they can't find anyone better. I hate people like that.

Kraven de Sade · 03-01-2007, 08:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Shyantra

Before I go into swearing mode let me tell you what happened. My boyfriend calls me up this morning around 8. After we exchange hellos, he says "Beth has expressed interest in me and I want to go out with her. So that means I am dumping you." And then he fucking hangs up! What conflagrant (sp) guy!

I swear! If I come across another guy, no, excuse me, a person! who tries to pull that in my eye's view I will tear there fucking head off!!!!

You should send him an e-mail saying how relieved you are that he broke up with you because you felt bad about cheating on him. (Not implying that you were, but revenge is sweet.)

PersephoneX · 03-01-2007, 10:17 PM

*passes IcedZoo biscuits to all*

Guys and girls can be jerks sometimes...
I caught my ex snogging this girl that i KNEW wanted him. I was meant to see him that night, but i had to attend another function. The other function ended early so i thought i'd surprise him...he surprised me instead...

Trick is to dust your pretty self off, and walk away...there are plenty of people worth your time.

DecadentHeroine · 03-01-2007, 10:18 PM

Good riddance, if he's such an arse. >.<

Kraven de Sade's idea has merit. =P

bleedingheart344 · 03-02-2007, 01:51 AM

*Eats zoo biscuit* I'm just glad you're feeling better about it syantra *hug*

Krayher · 03-02-2007, 02:34 AM

I got dumped once by a text message. I know how it feels hun, to an extent *hugs*

Valerius · 03-02-2007, 05:47 AM

I honestly know how you feel. You don't deserve something as awful as that, that much is obvious. But like Persephone said, just dust yourself off and expect that certain someone you're meant for come to you.