counseling?

[MollyMac]

I think he means report to the counselor's next up on the food chain. All the same, document the behaviour and report it. Otherwise, it is more harm to you.

[raggedyanne]

do report the guy. We had this guy who always subbed at my old school, ah was constanly hitting on all of us girls. We finally got him reported after he groped me, but I don't think he'd want to do that to anyone else after what the guys did to him. Next time your therapist tries to touch your chest, slap his hand away and tell him to never do it again or you'll report him. It usually makes them back off long enough for you to file papers.

[MollyMac]

I headbutted the last guy that grabbed my chest. That retort only works for some of us, though

[Dancing_in_rain]

I'm currently in counseling for my self-injury problem. I can't bring myself to tell my mum about it but I've got to confide in someone whose face I can see (that eliminates y'all, sorry!) so yes. I was actually sent by a teacher at my school, because she said that she would sleep better if she knew I was seeing someone. I have immense respect for that teacher for having taken the time to tell me what she thought and for her having treated me like an adult. I also respet her in general, because she is a fantastic teacher and person, so the least I could do was give her some peace of mind. Plus, I've really opened up to my counselor (she's at my school) and she's helped me lots.

[raggedyanne]

I'd probebly be dead right now if it wasn't for my best guy friend throwing me into a chair at school and yelling at me that if I didn't get help "so help him he'd drag me into the counselor's office himself." I found a good counselor and am getting better at not being self destructive. So the trick is to just find a good counselor who won't grab your ass, woman counselors are usually better.

[DarkHeartedDemoness]

I have had some good therapists and some bad ones.

When I was a kid, maybe 6 years old, my mom took me to a therapist because she thought I had ADHD. No, it had nothing to do with me being a hyper 6 year old-- she was confused as to how a 1st grader who could read at a 7th grade level could be failing her classes. The only logical answer was that it had to be either a disorder or some sort of motivational failing, both of which she thought could be helped through therapy. Unfortunately, the guy she picked was a "child specialist", and he talked to me like I was a child. That was enough for me to decide to hate him, so then and there I decided just to fuck with him. Long story short, I convinced the guy I had severe anger management problems and that I wanted to kill people-- which was like the furthest thing from the truth. Whatever, he totally believed me. That's his problem.

That put a bad taste in my mouth concerning therapists, and I wouldn't consent to go to another one until high school. He was a decent sort, and I would probably recommend him to others, but he didn't really get me. He also, in my opinion, made a pretty big mistake. He told my brother the name of the disorder he diagnosed him with. My brother then looked up the disorder and started to exhibit even more symptoms.

Before I went to the hospital this summer, my therapist was a Serial Diagnoser. Every question she asked me began with, "People who suffer from depression often experience..." She seemed sincere enough, but that style doesn't really work well for me, or for most people I know. It was never a direct question about me, it was always about categorizing me by my disease.

At the hospital, there were 2 main therapists. We called them the Two-Headed Therapi. They were really nice and supportive, and they had a really good teamwork thing going. I was disappointed that neither one of them had any sort of private practice outside of the psych ward.

Now, I'm with possibly the best therapist in the world. For me, anyway. She doesn't let me make excuses, and she calls me on my bullshit. She acknowledges that there is something wrong, but she doesn't label it or dwell on it specifically. She sees me as a whole person, not just a depressed person or an anxious person or whatever other label doctors have put on me.

The trick is to find the right person to talk to. Therapy isn't going to do jackshit if your therapist doesn't get you, or if you don't respect him or her.

[Arashi]

Thought I'd update on my perverse therapist issue -
I got a letter in the mail today, saying something along the lines of the guy losing his license and such.. It was not specific on why, or what else is happeneing to the bastard - but I'm sure that I was not the only one now. Someone acted before I had a chance to.. So I no longer have to see the fucker anymore.

My mother and I are going to look for another therapist now, hopefully one who doesn't molest people and grab their own private areas.

[james"bloody tears"]

im glad to see theres still some justice left in the world serves him right

[whispertwist]

If there are any other's out there who are being subjected to inappropriate sexual behavior by someone in authority, google a **** crisis hotline in your area and call the number.

They accept anonymous calls, they will help you evaluate the behavior, and they will tell you who to call to report this.

[edible_eye]

Originally Posted by MollyMac

I headbutted the last guy that grabbed my chest.

I'd risk it.

[mrs.wes straker]

Originally Posted by Arashi

Thought I'd update on my perverse therapist issue -
I got a letter in the mail today, saying something along the lines of the guy losing his license and such.. It was not specific on why, or what else is happeneing to the bastard - but I'm sure that I was not the only one now. Someone acted before I had a chance to.. So I no longer have to see the fucker anymore.

My mother and I are going to look for another therapist now, hopefully one who doesn't molest people and grab their own private areas.

Good.*****

[Vyvian Blackthorne]

Originally Posted by mrs.wes straker

I'm sorry, even if Super Spright is MEAN this is hilarious.
The tooth fairy! Ha ha!
OK, back on topic.

He's extremely rude but the things he says are hilarious. It's a guilty pleasure laughing at his trollishness.

[mrs.wes straker]

And he's back. Apparently he has a few online personas. Bizarre. What a freak.

[MollyMac]

Originally Posted by edible_eye

I'd risk it.

**** waits patiently******

;P

[MollyMac]

Originally Posted by mrs.wes straker

And he's back. Apparently he has a few online personas. Bizarre. What a freak.

Talk about Attentionwhore-a-go-go

I guess some people need and thrive on this behavior. Just let him have it, and let him flail about like a two year old in teh grocery. I mindfully ignore those situations as well

[mrs.wes straker]

I dunno. He posted some pics in the missing thread thread, and I don't know who they're of, but they're cute.

As far as people needing him around, they're just bored. I get bored too, but I also lose interest very quickly. Insulting people isn't entertainment in my book anyhow.

[HumanePain]

He is back to his old tricks, insulting cradle now on another thread.
https://www.gothic.net/boards/showth...701#post217701

That is some twisted guy that is allegedly "in college" but has to pick on a 14 year old to feel big.

[MollyMac]

Just ignore him and his separation sob story issues.

Ted Bundy was cute, too.

[HumanePain]

OK! Good advice.
::skips off to go click on ignore button::