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Old 11-20-2013, 09:39 PM   #8476
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Actually I can't. Work likes to get in the way.
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Old 11-20-2013, 11:39 PM   #8477
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Oh.. I completely forgot about the whole way that health care is set up there.

Umm.. move to Australia?
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Old 11-21-2013, 06:36 AM   #8478
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No, it's not that. I'd lose my position if I started medication right now. Friend of mine was actually transferred to a different unit for the same reason and I'm doubtful I'll see him again. I can't lose my job.
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Old 11-21-2013, 06:44 AM   #8479
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That is horrible. So basically, they tell you all to suffer in silence or get the boot?
That seems excessively cruel to me..
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Old 11-21-2013, 08:15 AM   #8480
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No, it's not. It's fucking stupid to let somebody who just started medication deploy.
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Old 11-21-2013, 11:05 AM   #8481
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Yo, Big V, medication or not, hope you make the right choice for yourself.
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Old 11-21-2013, 08:59 PM   #8482
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No, it's not. It's fucking stupid to let somebody who just started medication deploy.
^^This.

And not only for the sake of the people around them, but for their own sake as well.

It's hard work to start taking meds. There are horrible side effects to deal with, and it takes a long time to get the right medication for someone.

For instance, you might start on something common and then have to wait for a few weeks to see if it works.. and it doesn't, so you up the dose and then have to wait.. and it still doesn't work, so the dosage is increased again.. until they decide that this isn't the medication for you. Then you get to slowly wean yourself off it over a number of weeks and start a new medication.. which means trying to find the right dose again.

During all this you have to deal with the side effects.. so, let's say that you're getting a relatively common and easy to deal with side effect like headaches. It might take a couple of weeks for your body to adjust so that you don't get the headaches anymore (IF that happens.. for some people they just don't adjust) and by the time you're at the stage where you aren't getting headaches it's come time to adjust your dose.. so yay, more headaches.

Now, if you're working in retail then a constant headache is going to make you snarky with customers.. which isn't great. If you're in the armed forces, then... get where this is going?

And that's just headaches. You can also get stomach issues, chronic diarrheoa, vomiting and nausea, suicidal ideation.. and the list goes on.

And that isn't even touching on what happens when you're trying to decrease doses.

Starting on medication is hard work, and you need safe spaces to be able to do it.

@Versus - I hope shit works out for you.
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Old 11-22-2013, 04:28 AM   #8483
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Yeah, the military sucks at that. Last year I was seriously depressed. When I talked to my chief, I was essientially told, that if I told anyone , or if I started anti-depressants, that I would ve transfered out of my rating and marked non-deployable, then at that point the Navy would go over if I would be of use to them or not, if not and my depression became unmanageable i would be discharged. Administratively and not medically.
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Old 11-22-2013, 03:18 PM   #8484
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Administratively and not medically.
This is all colours of fucked up.
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Old 11-22-2013, 05:54 PM   #8485
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It's not for having the depression, it's for symptoms of the depression. "Failure to adapt." is a real term.
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Old 11-22-2013, 07:48 PM   #8486
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What the actual fuck? Failure to adapt? I don't even... what the fuck.
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Old 11-22-2013, 07:56 PM   #8487
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AR 635-200, Chapter 11. Google it.
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Old 11-22-2013, 08:13 PM   #8488
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I was more "WTF-ing" about mental illness being failure to adapt.

I went ahead and googled it anyway... found a fuckton of heartbreaking stories and got another snapshot of what bureaucracy on steroids looks like.

I hope you're able to find a good, workable solution.
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Old 11-24-2013, 04:39 AM   #8489
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No, it's not. It's fucking stupid to let somebody who just started medication deploy.
I hadn't thought of it like that. It makes sense though.
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Old 11-24-2013, 09:35 PM   #8490
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What is it like to be in the military? In one sentence
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Old 11-25-2013, 06:58 AM   #8491
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In one sentence? That's disrespectful as fuck. You want to know what people's lives are like, ask, by all means. But for fucks sake, you listen to them until they're done talking.
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Old 11-25-2013, 09:48 AM   #8492
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http://suicideproject.org/wp-content...13/10/aaaa.jpg

And what's with the inability to post pics for the moment Gnet?
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Old 11-25-2013, 10:28 AM   #8493
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You can't post pictures in the whining forum, noob.
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:06 PM   #8494
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why does everyone get mad at or ignore everything I write
is it hazing
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Old 11-25-2013, 12:07 PM   #8495
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i am not a troll thank you
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Old 11-25-2013, 09:32 PM   #8496
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You can't post pictures in the whining forum, noob.
D'oh! Silly me.
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Old 11-26-2013, 06:38 AM   #8497
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We need a Tree-house. You and me can go chill and spend some time with our imaginary flock of doggies, while we watch the sun set in a rainbow explosion of color and silhouette. We could always start a thread and call it our tree-house.
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Old 11-26-2013, 08:12 PM   #8498
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Dammit. I'm trying to upload a display pic and it's not working.
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Old 11-27-2013, 01:15 PM   #8499
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Really "Skyrim: Legendary Edition" you have to quit whenever I try to enter the stupid cave that goes to the Dawngaurd headquarters?

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Old 11-27-2013, 03:09 PM   #8500
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Cool, I'll get right on it. *wicked grin*
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