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04-11-2009, 03:09 PM
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#226
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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I have a rant.
Korrina is here.
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04-11-2009, 03:11 PM
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#227
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
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I have a rant.
Ophie spelled my name wrong.
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04-11-2009, 03:14 PM
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#228
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
I have a rant.
Korrina is here.
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Oh get the fuck over it.
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04-11-2009, 03:18 PM
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#229
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Join Date: Jan 2006
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Originally Posted by Solumina
Oh get the fuck over it.
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I don't get why you say that.
Do you imagine I'm sitting at home fuming or sobbing because she's here?
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04-11-2009, 03:25 PM
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#230
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
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No but you seem to bitch every time you encounter her, you commented about how you were glad that she was gone when people mentioned that she wasn't around anymore and when I said that she wasn't planing on coming back you felt compelled to tell us how overjoyed you were. I happen to like the both of you but you seem to have it out for her and go out of your way to make that known and that kind of cattiness gets under my skin.
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04-11-2009, 04:33 PM
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#231
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: In a magical cupcake world.
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Daddy rant.
Let me get this clear before I begin: I love my father. He is a kind, giving, caring, brilliant person. He's a wonderful Dad.
However, he sometimes says things that hurts me, really really bad.
He's done this repeatedly, and I've learned to just agree with whatever he says, no matter how much I may hate it.
What happened today:
I'm trying to be really, really nice to him. And here is how the conversation went:
Dad: Hi sweetie!
Me: Hi daddy! Like my shoes? (4 inch heel, brown leather.)
D: Yes, surprisingly.
M: really?
D: Yeah...I don't have a problem with you looking sexy, I have a problem with you looking like a satanic whore. (Not his exact words, I don't remember them, but similar.)
M:...yeah, I know.
D: Are you wearing them to attract boys or girls?
M: Both (He knows I'm bisexual)
D: I think you need to choose one. Otherwise, you're just looking for sex, not love.
M: ...
D: (continues on about this)
M: ...oh...
*silence*
D: are you upsat about what I said?
M: Yes.
D: Well, I'm sorry.
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D: I'm not sorry about what I said, because that's true. I'm sorry that you're upset about it.
Yeah. Not really a big deal. But he said it rather..harshly. And kind. Like..well, like a father. And it's so hard for me not to believe him.
And I have very short hair in the back (about 3/4 an inch) and longer in the front (about 6 inches.) It's dyed a strawberry blond, solely to please him. He's already told my that it looks like shit, on numerous occasions, and that people are just too afraid to tall me. He wants me to grow it long to attract members of the opposite sex.
Then this happened on the way home:
D: I want you to grow your hair out.
M: I know.
D: I was reading an article the other day, and it showed a women with a shaved head who had been murdered. Her arms and legs were cut off. She was 22.
Me:That's horrible!
D: She reminded me of you. Look at you: you already have the hair, and you want to add two more holes into your head. (I have my ears pierced. Once. And I want to do it again.)
M:but that's all I want.
D: NOW it is. What about later?! You're going down that path! In college, you will be tempted, an you WILL give in! and then you'll be out partying all night and throw your college, you future away! You'll get yourself killed!
M: Bye, daddy.
And I left the car.
I don't know...I just feel like such an awful person when he talks to me. I feel like such a failure. I dress like an (almost) normal person, I get fairly good grades, the teachers and students love me, I have nicknamed half the upper school, I bake and buy chocolates for EVERYONE when they get sick/breakup/are having a bad day, I'm taking 4 APs and 2 honors academic classes next year, I'm artistic, and I have a good body..
And it's still not enough. I don't have long hair, I don't play a sport, I'm not a republican, I don't have a boyfriend, I'm not STRAIGHT, I'm not normal, I read about things I shouldn't, I give in to my friends too easily, I'm too stubborn, I'm too ignorant, I'm too fucked up, I'm too fat, I'm too thin, I'm too neat, I'm a slob, I 'm not good enough.
My friends never come over to my house because they are either forbidden by their parents (who fear my father's temper) or because they're afraid of my Dad. I have people complain to me about him. He's the ONLY person who makes me cry...when I wasn't' living with him, I cried maybe twice a year. Now I do it practically weekly.
Right. Rant is over. I feel better now.
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04-11-2009, 04:57 PM
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#232
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
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Tell your dad that you are who you are and you can't change that, it is up to him to love you for who you are. I'm sorry but he sounds like an emotionally abusive jerk, you deserve to be treated much better than that. You are a good person, any parent should be ecstatic to have a daughter like you.
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04-11-2009, 05:20 PM
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#233
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Inside Eva O's uterus...
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Wow. Wow. Shame about your dad, Tismine. That's really unfortunate. I hate when parents are like that. I'm not much of an advice giver, otherwise I'd try to help you out.
Yeah, he's basically disapproving who you are as a person, and that's so wrong.
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04-11-2009, 05:46 PM
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#234
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Solumina
No but you seem to bitch every time you encounter her, you commented about how you were glad that she was gone when people mentioned that she wasn't around anymore and when I said that she wasn't planing on coming back you felt compelled to tell us how overjoyed you were. I happen to like the both of you but you seem to have it out for her and go out of your way to make that known and that kind of cattiness gets under my skin.
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Why is it ok when people say that kind of thing about Uni because they don't like her, but I'm not allowed to say that kind of thing about Korinna?
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04-11-2009, 06:17 PM
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#235
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
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I get just as fed up with all of the needless bitching at uni, I've said so on more than a few occasions.
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04-11-2009, 07:27 PM
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#236
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
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Ahahahahaha. Ophelia, I find your apparent obsession with my comings and goings amusing as hell. :]
& thanks for spelling my name correctly in your most recent post!
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04-11-2009, 08:02 PM
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#237
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Suburbiatown, Pennsylvania.
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lol internet.
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04-11-2009, 08:29 PM
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#238
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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Originally Posted by korinna5555
Ahahahahaha. Ophelia, I find your apparent obsession with my comings and goings amusing as hell. :]
& thanks for spelling my name correctly in your most recent post!
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How is mentioning it once an obsession?
You're dumber than I thought.
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04-11-2009, 09:19 PM
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#239
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
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I was starting to pack some of our cold weather stuff and apparently I managed to get a few cardboard cuts from boxes, I did not notice this until a moment ago as I was slicing up some peppers
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04-11-2009, 09:49 PM
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#240
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Join Date: Dec 2006
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Ophelia; With regards to Korinna, you are so gosh darn predictable. Mix it up a bit, yo. Throw in some love, if only to knock her off balance.
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04-11-2009, 10:42 PM
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#241
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: In Antarctica with the Penguins
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I have a rant:
Mir's avatar is way cooler than mine. :[
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04-11-2009, 10:54 PM
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#242
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Join Date: Jan 2006
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Originally Posted by Mir
Ophelia; With regards to Korinna, you are so gosh darn predictable. Mix it up a bit, yo. Throw in some love, if only to knock her off balance.
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I'm ok with being predictable in this respect.
As for rants...New Doctor Who episode fucking blew ass.
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04-11-2009, 10:56 PM
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#243
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: In the Desert
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr E Nigma
I have a rant:
Mir's avatar is way cooler than mine. :[
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Conformist!
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04-11-2009, 11:03 PM
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#244
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: In Antarctica with the Penguins
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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia
I'm ok with being predictable in this respect.
As for rants...New Doctor Who episode fucking blew ass.
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Really? Fail.. :[
DUANE I'LL KILL YOU!...
...no but seriously!
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04-11-2009, 11:41 PM
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#245
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Posts: 34
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My rant: My ex boyfriend is a prick. The end.
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04-12-2009, 09:47 AM
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#246
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
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I have another rant: Ophelia either has amnesia, or can't count. Both?
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04-12-2009, 09:59 AM
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#247
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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Originally Posted by korinna5555
I have another rant: Ophelia either has amnesia, or can't count. Both?
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It's probably more that I can't be fucked to get accurate details about things related to my interactions with you.
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04-12-2009, 10:02 AM
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#248
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
Posts: 5,290
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Yet you bother to comment about my return..
Lulz.
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04-12-2009, 10:34 AM
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#249
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Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: NoVA
Posts: 5,290
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Waffle-muffins = all gone :[
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04-12-2009, 10:45 AM
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#250
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: Los Angeles
Posts: 779
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What the hell is a waffle-muffin?
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