This Is THe End......My Only Friends

WolfMoon · 06-03-2004, 12:01 PM

:cry: Damn,been avoiding making this post.Due to unwarranted suspicions, I'm afraid I must say good-bye guys and gals.My other half has seen fit to decide that my lifestyle choice has created problems in the relationship, for him.First it was my religeon,or lack there of.I refuse to argue about these things.That's just not enough anymore.If you marry someone, why should you expect them to change afterward?Fuck!!I'm so godsbedamned depressed!!!

I could understand if I was being a negligent parent partying all the time or if I had any kind of life that would intrude on my family, as if!But my only connection to the sub-culture I love has come under fire and much as I try to defend it, I just can't get through.THis marks the end of something beautiful babies.I've enjoyed you all, or tried to anyways....*half-hearted chuckle*

To all of the people that have inspired me and been inspired by me, thank you.For arguing with me, debating with me, making me laugh and cry and giggle with delight.I haven't loved you all, but I've loved as many of you as I could.There are too many to name, but you know who you all are, I'll miss you all terribly.

And now on a melo-dramatic note:

Down to the morgue,right secretboi? :cry:

kog3100 · 06-03-2004, 12:19 PM

I hope this is a joke, WolfMoon.

Maimy, PM her or something.

Is it because of a connection to the 'goth' stuff in general here? Or the flirting stuff?

If the former, your being 'dark' is part of what (I thought) he found attractive in the first place...

If the latter, we can definitely stop. I don't think you are doing anything wrong but we can all put the kibosh on that sort of talk with you until you can make it clear that it doesn't really mean anything.

Is your connection to this place really jeopardizing your relationship? This site isn't porn... I don't understand. Is there something else going on here?

Jane13 · 06-03-2004, 12:43 PM

Please don't go!

We'll miss you too much!

Sephiroth_Magus_Macleod · 06-03-2004, 01:47 PM

I hate to see you go but only you can make the choice. If people cannot expect your nature, they are not really truth to you.

:? Best of luck with the life

JoneZZe · 06-03-2004, 02:35 PM

i'm sorry to see you go. I'm new here, and looking over the posts i find you an admirable person, and i will miss you.

The_Crazy_Irishman · 06-03-2004, 02:38 PM

I'll certainly be sorry to see you go, this forum will be missing something without you, though no doubt people will try to fill the gap

cussedness · 06-03-2004, 03:00 PM

awwww. I am sorry to see you go, Wolfmoon. And just as I was starting to post again. Well, it seems to me that he's being too controlling and that isn't good. My ex was a control freak and ruined my writing career. It took me years to pick up the pieces and put it all back together again. So I know how these things can go.

demon_warrior · 06-03-2004, 06:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WolfMoon

:cry: Damn,been avoiding making this post.Due to unwarranted suspicions, I'm afraid I must say good-bye guys and gals.My other half has seen fit to decide that my lifestyle choice has created problems in the relationship, for him.First it was my religeon,or lack there of.I refuse to argue about these things.That's just not enough anymore.If you marry someone, why should you expect them to change afterward?Fuck!!I'm so godsbedamned depressed!!!

I could understand if I was being a negligent parent partying all the time or if I had any kind of life that would intrude on my family, as if!But my only connection to the sub-culture I love has come under fire and much as I try to defend it, I just can't get through.THis marks the end of something beautiful babies.I've enjoyed you all, or tried to anyways....*half-hearted chuckle*

To all of the people that have inspired me and been inspired by me, thank you.For arguing with me, debating with me, making me laugh and cry and giggle with delight.I haven't loved you all, but I've loved as many of you as I could.There are too many to name, but you know who you all are, I'll miss you all terribly.

And now on a melo-dramatic note:

Down to the morgue,right secretboi? :cry:

I see you around quite alot, and well, I don't think that this
place would be quite the same with out you.
I really hope you change your mind.
Demon

Fallen_Faerie · 06-03-2004, 07:58 PM

Wow...

I really wasn't expecting this at all... I saw the post, but didn't notice the author at first. WolfMoon, you'll definitely be missed. I don't post a lot here, either because someone's already said what I would have, or I really have nothing of significance to add...

But I did want to say, that it's not just the people you talk to on a regular basis here that will miss you... It's also the random people in the shadows that enjoy watching all the commotion. Vaguely creepy, no?

Heh... In any case... Hope it all works out for you WolfMoon.

RetroGoth_queen · 06-03-2004, 09:07 PM

Aww come on wolf

do what you do best
tell hime to get fucked, stop controlling your life and grow up!

if you leave I'll have no one to disagree with and i think I might miss that

You are woman, lets hear you roar!

Forever your friendly mortal enemy - lol, joking

RetroGoth_Queen :twisted:

bexxle · 06-03-2004, 09:52 PM

Personally I think only a real jerk would want their girlfriend to only hang-out with them and no one else. There has to be trust in a relationship. Saying who Wolfmoon can and cannot talk to is very jerky. Not too mention maybe he feels like he cannot trust her because he is doing things he that are unscrupulous.

Mmmm, I’ll miss you Wolf, but "you know where we’ll be found, when we come around." Paraphrasing from a Green Day song, without half the implications.

Daz · 06-03-2004, 11:08 PM

I don't know what to say. You were one of the first friends i got in here and one of the few who stayed by me when everything went to shit. I'll miss you more than you will understand, you were always able to make me smile even if I didnt want to.

.BatteryPoison. · 06-03-2004, 11:52 PM

Life is full of obstacles and deterrents that sometimes force one to make choices that lead to unwilling sacrifices. Though hard to see after amputating a part of your life, the road that leads you to felicity is not paved of the forfeits you've made, but of the claims you've staked. Wherever life happens takes you, Wolf, I wish you nothing but the best of good fortune.

Bodnoirbabe · 06-04-2004, 12:50 AM

Well, I've enjoyed the little time that i have gotten to interact with you, Wolfie. You have a natural flame that draws all of us damn moths to you. I'm defintly going to miss you and all your humor slathered points.

I also want to say that I admire you for sacrificing what you need to in order to make your relationship work. Most people would say fuck off, but then, that's why divorce rates are so high. Kudos to you for doing what you know is best even if it is the hardest. And this sacrifice will come back to you in a more positive and joyous way. Don't be a complete stranger.
You will be missed. :cry:

Maimy · 06-04-2004, 11:24 AM

The shame of this loss is that Wolfie has committed to her husband not to read all the things we are saying. Yesterday is supposed to be the end of it for her. And yet, yesterday, Wolfie gave me one of the greatest gifts any 'online friend' ever has, and suddenly, the loss is even more acute.

In the hope that WolfHusband might look in here to make sure she's not doing the same, I'll say just this to him:

First - Your wife treated you and your child with a rare measure of honor and discretion in her life online. I have always been impressed with her circumpsection and grace where marriage and motherhood are concerned. She is a remarkable woman in both capacities.

Second - You had better treat that woman with every ounce of respect, and bear on her all the formidable passion she deserves. She is an amazing, beautiful woman. Her giving up this forum - what it is being more than might be understandable to someone who's never truly experienced an online community - is a significant, serious sacrifice. This woman has removed herself from some very real FRIENDS for the sake of your relationship.

I hope that is the right thing to do.

I hope you are worthy of it.

Because you have taken something away from us, too.

And we will miss her.

Maimy · 06-04-2004, 12:24 PM

If Wolfie's husband IS a controlling 'wanker' who has overridden her personal choice, he sucks ass. If, however, she's come to this painful decision because she really thinks it's best, whatever her husband's level of wankitude, we have no choice but to accept it.

For good or ill, all we know is that he is threatened by or annoyed by her participation here. If that's because of his perception of goth in general, or particular parts of this lounge he has personally read (lots of heavy flirting comes to mind, some of the feminism things she's posted now do too), our only defense against his fear is to prove it irrational: To show HIM respect, and thereby illustrate our respect for Wolfie's life and family.

Some of the things I've said to her, out of context, might threaten someone who wasn't closely participating here. The flirting, the innuendo. The pointblank verbs. *Ahem* If I were with anyone other than kog3100, or anyone who didn't participate here, I can't swear that some of the more boisterous days here wouldn't look strange to someone I'd committed to.

We all have our comfort zones. WolfHusband's doesn't seem to include us.

I'm sorry to lose her, but the fact is I'm actually hoping we don't see her again soon. Because, if we don't see her again soon, that means that her leaving the boards was the right choice, and is working. If she reappeared in a hurry, it could very well be because something ruptured between someone very wonderful and the man she is married to. No matter whether he's a wanker or not, I would not wish that pain on Wolfie. Ever.

It pains me not to see her here.

But, now, in a way ... it would pain me almost as much for this break to be temporary.

Wolfie, through the ether and the spirit, I pray best wishes for you AND WolfHusband AND the cub. May goodness carry you. May faith reward you. You have given much of that. It deserves worthy return.

Jane13 · 06-04-2004, 12:53 PM

*cries* Maimy, that makes too much sense.

ghostposts · 06-05-2004, 02:13 AM

We honor her choice. The lady is smart, and We trust her judgement.

She will be missed.

Giga · 06-05-2004, 10:14 AM

Fuck... wolfmoon has been around here since... well, since the Great Bang or somethin' like that.

Crap... I can't believe I wont see her around here, I'm damn used to reading her posts as a regular part of my day... shit =P...

black_fairy · 06-05-2004, 03:23 PM

Mmmm... I can't answer this poll: I don't know what wanker means....

:P

I think that everyone here will miss you so much.... You are part of Gothic.net!!! This isn't the same without you....

*Shit! I'm turning melancholic...! :roll: *

Gnossos · 06-05-2004, 05:40 PM

black_fairy- "Wanker" is literally a British colloquialism for "one who masturbates". However, like many english expressions, the word has come (heh) to have multiple (eep) definitions.

In this case, it would mean: asshole; loser; uncool; or self-involved moron. None of which apply to WolfMoon.

That's why we'll miss her so. -Gnossos

black_fairy · 06-06-2004, 05:10 AM

Thanks Gnossos, now I know the reason why I didn't find 'wanker' in my dictionary... :roll:

I'm still thinking the same about you, Wolfmoon, this isn't the same without you...

OnMyOwn · 06-06-2004, 05:25 AM

Wolfie !
How can you leave?
your a big part of this group,you make us laugh and argue.Im gonna miss all the times ive laughed when you flame someone, sadly I havent had the pleasure of being flamed by you

.

Why do you have to leave!! NO !!!! its not right. This sucks. We are all gonna miss you too much and i wish you luck on your relationship and your role on being a mother. Good Luck. God Bless. Dont ever change for anyone. BYE :cry:

GothHyena · 06-06-2004, 04:52 PM

Damn! This just sucks. Wolf was one of the best people to read while scrollin' through the bulletin boards. I liked her instantly. Sigh, and I'm still too new to remember any good times. Good luck though, Wolf.

secretboy · 06-06-2004, 06:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WolfMoon

Down to the morgue,right secretboi? :cry:

Bah!

On the hopes that this is a temporary relationship affliction, or some passing madness, there'll always be a place at the fire for ya, Wolfie. From how you've described your husband in posts before this thread, at least you'll be with a pretty kickass person (...plus the tyke. But I never understood the big deal about those little squirts.)

With you gone, I'll just have to be extra cranky on the rest of these ingrates. :wink: