sick of this forum

[Saddiction]

Originally Posted by Graveyard.Crow

What's wrong with that?

The whole seeking sympathy and/or attention thing gets old. You know, creating one thread (IN the whining section) is one thing. Creating 3, 4 , 5, 10 (a bit exaggerated) threads about how much life sucks, is another, and quite frankly, annoying.

[Crying_Crimson_Tears]

Yes it does get old. Hence the reason why some of you are telling her to get over herself and she needs to stop asking for attention. It is blatantly clear that is mostly what she wants. Just by looking at her posts most of us could get that.

[Saddiction]

I agree that she is indeed getting attention. However I feel that the attention she is getting, is unexpected and most likely not the kind she was originally seeking.

[Crying_Crimson_Tears]

Which is fine with me. She needs this kind of attention. Maybe then she can break her attention addiction, although I doubt it.

[Delicate_Torture]

Originally Posted by Graveyard.Crow

What's wrong with that?

It is manipulative to push people into a situation where they feel compelled to act a particular way (or feel a particular emotion) because they have been given an ultimatum.

"Feel sorry for me or I'll leave."

I'm not going to have my emotions pulled and be manipulated by someone that I've not said more than a couple of posts to. It is a rude and arrogant thing to assume that you can play with people like that. As far as I'm concerned someone either needs actual permission or implied permission (implied by a close friendship, etc) to touch me, whether it be physical or emotional. You do not have that permission, Mindless.

[Tismine]

Hm...go here, please.

[Hint-that was a link]

[Delicate_Torture]

Originally Posted by Tismine

Hm...go here, please.

[Hint-that was a link]

-sighs contentedly-

I just heart The Lady of the Manners.

[Haunted House]

All I'm hearing is "Wah wah wah I expect everyone on the Internet to be clones of me." If you don't like it then dry your eyes and leave. If you look cloesly you'll find things you like here and if not then go to another forum. If you took the time to get to know some of the people here maybe they wouldn't "pick apart your words". You act like you're the only person who gets flamed and you're not so stop flattering yourself. If you're getting flamed then there is definitely a reason. Also, noone cares if you leave anyway.

[Extraordinary]

You guys never miss a chance to kick somebody when they're down, do you?

[Godslayer Jillian]

Puh-leez.
I agree that sometimes people just overextend themselves especially recently, but this one really had it coming.
He/she completely dissed and was rude to the one person that gave him/her a piece of advice genuinely worth listening to and then made some very hypocritical statements.

[ainmhí]

I don’t think it’s so much about kicking her while she’s down, as much as it’s talking some sense into her. She’s made multiple posts whining about how horrible her life is; as if we haven’t heard it all before. I don’t mind handing out advice when someone is in desperate need of it, but when someone goes on and on about their problems; it’s annoying. Constant whining (in real life and online) grates on my nerves. We all have our problems and we deal with them accordingly.

This isn’t meant to come off as mean and bitchy but, for the love of god, please take a hint. You can either learn to behave in an appropriate manner or just leave. That means that being rude here isn’t going to get you anywhere with the established members of this forum. There was no reason for you to raise a big stink over anything that has been said to you.

I’m also going to assume that you are new to interacting with people online. You need to sit back and observe what goes on before jumping right in and expecting everyone to want to offer any help or make any friends. I have spent over a year on a site as a member making very few posts and only asking for advice once before the established group let me know that I was considered a valuable, trusted member. My patience and reserved behavior paid off.

I must apologize to everyone else if this comes off as being high and mighty while I’m still a newbie.

Now I’m off to bed…

[mindless1]

You're all so full of it.

[Tismine]

Please don't make generalizations.
You came on here and, essentially, asked us to love you and care for you immediately.
when presented with an honest opinion, you reacted with anger and insults.
Sorry, dear.

[mindless1]

"We", dear, is a generalization. "You" happen to know nothing of what I asked essentially. I didn't ask anyone to love me at all. I asked advice for concentration and mentioned I had a mental illness, was told this was a pointless post and then repeatedly harassed only afterwards by other members. And I dont think only I reacted with anger and insults. To try to be self-rightous about it is hypocritical. Just give up and don't apologize, I dont need them.

"Please don't make generalizations.
You came on here and, essentially, asked us to love you and care for you immediately.
when presented with an honest opinion, you reacted with anger and insults.
Sorry, dear."

You obviously represent some general group of people. Or, are you speaking for the whole forum?

[Saddiction]

Originally Posted by mindless1

Just give up and don't apologize, I dont need them.

And we don't need you.

[mindless1]

another generalization

[mindless1]

Why would you or... you and your friends need me?

[Tismine]

Originally Posted by mindless1

"We", dear, is a generalization. "You" happen to know nothing of what I asked essentially. I didn't ask anyone to love me at all. I asked advice for concentration and mentioned I had a mental illness, was told this was a pointless post and then repeatedly harassed only afterwards by other members. And I dont think only I reacted with anger and insults. To try to be self-rightous about it is hypocritical. Just give up and don't apologize, I dont need them.

"Please don't make generalizations.
You came on here and, essentially, asked us to love you and care for you immediately.
when presented with an honest opinion, you reacted with anger and insults.
Sorry, dear."

You obviously represent some general group of people. Or, are you speaking for the whole forum?

I happen to know nothing of what you asked? I beg your pardon. You are correct, of course. I don't have a degree on it, just suffer from it. Shame on me for trying to reassure you that it was normal and asking you to consult a professional.
I wasn't speaking for the whole forum. It was a royal we, in a sense.
And there was a difference in your generalization and mine.
For us, sorry, ME to write an honest answer, one that I spent time on, then I would need to care. I'm assuming that you were smart enough to know this.

[badteccy]

mindless1 is a silly INTERNETS drama whore who should just be patted on the head and ignored.

[MollyMac]

Aw, c'mon. Thanks to mindless' constant mouth breating, many trees can live. the warm but braindead body is an important part of the carbon cycle. Elton John may even write a song about her involuntary functions to commemorate the basic vapidity of it all.

[biohazard]

Does anyone here hate me? I am just wandering, since I am still a newb.

[Romantic Raven]

I don't get it. How come all the people who want to leave this forum post a thread whining about how this place sucks? Why don't they just leave, if that's their one and only desire? Why do they have to make a public announcement first? It's not like our humble opinion matters to them... or so the claim.

[Methadrine]

Here we go again...

[Tismine]

THANK YOU, MR. METH.

Ugh. They do it because they want attention. Blah.

[the-broken-harlequin]

Originally Posted by Extraordinary

You guys never miss a chance to kick somebody when they're down, do you?

Only the whiny shits who deserve it!