Girl Troubles - Page 2

Underwater Ophelia · 06-21-2008, 07:51 PM

You can't be mad at her because she doesn't return your feelings. Sometimes you like people who don't like you back.

Pantherlette086 · 06-21-2008, 07:52 PM

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Here is the really shitty part about some chicks (I say chicks cuz I have never witnessed a guy do this): she has a boyfriend that she thinks is hot but he treats her like crap so they find a guy friend, lead him on, and get him to do all of the "boyfriend" things that her actual boyfriend wont do (such as taking her out to the movies and buying her gifts). It is a really sucky thing to do, but I have seen it happen quite a lot.

I've seen that happen too!! I think it's like a slap in the face.

Godslayer Jillian · 06-21-2008, 08:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

You can't be mad at her because she doesn't return your feelings. Sometimes you like people who don't like you back.

He can be mad because she was only thinking of her. Either that or she thought of him and for some reason going on and on about her boyfriend was a good decision in her head.

Solumina · 06-21-2008, 08:14 PM

It seems like she was trying to make it seem like he had misinterpreted her actions so that he wouldn't see the fact that was leading him on, by trying to show that she loves her boyfriend sooooo much that there is no way any guy could think that she was flirting with him. I'd be pretty pissed if someone did that to me.

Mir · 06-21-2008, 08:17 PM

It's not just those sorts of things that they do. Low self esteem drives them to do a whole bunch of other shit too.

Underwater Ophelia · 06-21-2008, 08:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Godslayer Jillian

He can be mad because she was only thinking of her. Either that or she thought of him and for some reason going on and on about her boyfriend was a good decision in her head.

I didn't say anything about going on and on about him. That's either her being mean on purpose, or she's really stupid.

He seemed angry that she didn't go after him, which isn't right.

korinna5555 · 06-21-2008, 08:33 PM

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Oh yeah, I had a few friends back in high school who just loved having guys fight over them, they didn't care why, they just loved the attention, thankfully I don't still have those friends as they were also the type to start fights among our group of friends because it made them feel important.

You know.. though I was never privy to her dating life, this makes me think (okay, SCREAMS) Katie Cutshall..

Solumina · 06-21-2008, 08:43 PM

Yeah she was (and I believe still is) that type of girl

korinna5555 · 06-21-2008, 08:48 PM

HAHAHAHA.. how did I know?!

I still remember when her tan was ruined because she was ever-so-sloppy at putting lemon juice in her hair.. ha.. *giggles to self*

Solumina · 06-21-2008, 08:54 PM

Hahahahaha

Barfing_Rat · 06-21-2008, 09:24 PM

Well... You're making a mistake. You bites the bait too eagerly. She's just playing catch and release with you. You're just one of her victim that she just released.

I recommend you to try get at least two or three girl's # or email address a week. Stay in touch with them, make a plan with them at different time and stuff. That way you'll not get so attached to one girl and the girls will be forced to work for your attention in the end. Even if she does and you end up like her and she try this crap on you then you can just blow her off and walk away without feel a one bit bad.

I do this all time and when girls tried to play game with me, I'd just stop giving her what she want. It always work well, especially when they start to wonder why you're not paying attention to them. If you want to be harsh... Just tell her she have gained too much weight and is a pig. Or simply tell her you'll get back to her then never do, it bug them to no end.

Solumina · 06-21-2008, 09:30 PM

...so play them so that they can't/wont play you? That sounds like a rather jaded and calloused way to handle things. Just try not to get emotionally invested in someone unless you know that there is at least a chance of them feeling the same way, yeah you may still get hurt sometimes but that is better than never letting yourself fall in love

Barfing_Rat · 06-21-2008, 09:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Solumina

...so play them so that they can't/wont play you? That sounds like a rather jaded and calloused way to handle things. Just try not to get emotionally invested in someone unless you know that there is at least a chance of them feeling the same way, yeah you may still get hurt sometimes but that is better than never letting yourself fall in love

It's well known that girls HATE guys who are desperate. So by having list of girls you can go out with, you won't seems desperate at all because you'll be busy. This way allows you determine who is really interest in you or who is just using you. Also if one doesn't work out then you can just blow it off without feeling bad at all. However if you find someone who you really like and this person express the same then it's time to stop doing all this stuff.

I have had girls lead me on like crazy because they think it's easy to play with me because I'm deaf. So when they try to make themselves seem important by try to use me or try to make me feel bad by talk about their boyfriend or whatever. I'd just shrug and walk away and made them look stupid in the end.

Solumina · 06-21-2008, 10:14 PM

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It's well known that girls HATE guys who are desperate. So by having list of girls you can go out with, you won't seems desperate at all because you'll be busy. This way allows you determine who is really interest in you or who is just using you. Also if one doesn't work out then you can just blow it off without feeling bad at all. However if you find someone who you really like and this person express the same then it's time to stop doing all this stuff.

Okay, thanks for the clarification, still not something that I would do but seems like a reasonable enough way to go about things.

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I have had girls lead me on like crazy because they think it's easy to play with me because I'm deaf.

Wow that is seriously fucked up, I'm really sorry that you have had to deal with people like that.

Barfing_Rat · 06-21-2008, 10:23 PM

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Okay, thanks for the clarification, still not something that I would do but seems like a reasonable enough way to go about things.

Wow that is seriously fucked up, I'm really sorry that you have had to deal with people like that.

No I would NEVER encourage anybody to cheat on anyone. This kind of thing upset me.

Yeah... people always assume I'm not intelligent so... I always have my guard up because I never know what people will try.

KontanKarite · 06-21-2008, 10:38 PM

You seem pretty damned smart to me.

Metabolik · 06-22-2008, 04:34 AM

Thanks for the advice,

I spoke to her last night, she said sorry, it didn't seem very sincere to be honest...

Couple of minutes later I asked her why she went on about her boyfriend, just because I wanted to know, it was a perfectly acceptable question in my opinion, and she called me a stoner prick...there for i'm not going to talk to her again...ever...I don't deserve to be called a prick just because I asked a question.

Underwater Ophelia · 06-22-2008, 07:08 AM

No, you don't.

It seems she just need attention from guys. Don't be the one to give it to her.

Metabolik · 06-22-2008, 08:54 AM

She can fuck off and get attention from her boyfriend lol.

KontanKarite · 06-22-2008, 09:35 AM

Weeeelllll, sounds to me like he's failing in that department. She DID use you for emotional validation.

honeythorn · 06-22-2008, 09:37 AM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

Sometimes you like people who don't like you back.

Story of my life that :/

Good luck with it all Metabolik. She doesn't sound worth your time in the slightest.

Barfing_Rat · 06-22-2008, 09:49 AM

Metabolik.... May you should watch a couple James Bond films. That will give you some idea of how to deal with women.

honeythorn · 06-22-2008, 10:02 AM

Had Sean Connery not been so goddamn hairy....I would have.

KontanKarite · 06-22-2008, 10:03 AM

Watch James Bondage films. You'll really know how to deal with women then. :-/

...oooh, that was probably really insensitive.

Barfing_Rat · 06-22-2008, 10:09 AM

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Watch James Bondage films. You'll really know how to deal with women then. :-/

...oooh, that was probably really insensitive.

LMAO James Bond don't like bondage. However he does love it rough though.

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Had Sean Connery not been so goddamn hairy....I would have.

I'm gonna to have my head on a stick but... Daniel Craig is probably the best Jame Bond! The way he deal with women is amazing! He can blow them off then have them come back and beg him for more attention. Now that take some real skill!