Just wandered in...
Well met.
I randomly came across this site while searching for goth sites to read and thought I might give it a try. I'm determined to expand my horizons with the dawn of the new year and hopefully find some like minded people to correspond with and become friends.
My name is Michael but online I generally go by deathsdj. To start with I'll answer those questions I found in the sticky at the top of this thread.
1. What do you do? (Hobbies, job) - For the last 24 years I have been a club DJ. I play music for dancers and make announcements over the mic in a loud and busy club. It is not a bad living but probably not as cool as it sounds either. I have come to realize that I don't tend to meet the kind of people I would like to in my line of work so I am reaching out a bit. For fun I care for my daughter who is 4 (single dad), I play electric bass guitar and write songs and music, I enjoy gaming (1st edition AD&D in particular), and I love to read and watch movies.
2. Where are you from? - Wichita, KS. A place I find rather boring but that might be because I work too much. No real Goth scene that I have uncovered and a pretty poor live music scene as well. Other than that it is a fine place to live.
3. Who is your favorite author? - Too many to get into. Right now I'm on a mission to read everything Jack Vance has ever written. I love the way he so easily creates believable alien worlds and his stellar use of language. I am heavily into reading and talking about authors and books is a joy to me.
4. What are your favorite films? - Another topic that could lead to paragraphs upon paragraphs. An ever changing list that fluctuates with my mood. I do love watching movies when I can carve out the time.
5. What music do you want played at your wedding? - Egads! I love music but I'm not very interested in weddings, at least not for me. This is a question I would have to discuss with whomever was my intended.
6. At your funeral? - No concern to me as I won't be there, only the empty husk that once housed me. I'll be content to let my daughter handle any arrangements.
7. This IS a gothic website, so... how do you want to die? - Preferably peacefully in my sleep at a ripe old age. If that is too boring I suppose saving the lives of loved ones would be pretty epic.
8. What kind of casket would you want? - Probably a rental since I intend to be cremated but for the ceremony I would like a large black casket reminiscent of a 1967 Cadillac. For an urn I am thinking of something cube like, made of shining bronze with strange black runes that nobody understands.
9. What's your FAVORITE outfit? - I don't really have a favorite outfit. I like to dress very nice in a style the shows my goth and punk sides without being too overly shocking. I also like to look like I have just been to a good metal show.
10. What's one thing you miss about being a little kid? - A complete lack of responsibility. Playing AD&D every waking moment I could get away with. The absolute splendor of having my whole life ahead of me without the knowledge of how screwed up things can become.
11. What's your favorite band? - Again this topic can get rather involved with me. I have favorites across multiple decades and genera. To name a few would leave out too many so I'll let that stuff come out in my various posts on this board.
12. What kind of education do you have? What is/was/will be your major? - I came from a very poor family so while I graduated high school on time with decent grades I was not offered a free ride to college. I did manage an associates degree in computer programming that I don't use and is way out of date anyway. If I was independently wealthy I would like to go to WSU but I really don't see it happening.
13. Why did you join? - I would like to meet some like minded people outside of the people I meet in my career as a club DJ. People who regard intelligence as a good thing and are not a slave to alcohol and drugs. Creative people who are comfortable being themselves and with letting me be myself. I recently escaped a bad situation and find myself free to be who I am once again and I'm looking to make some new friends.
14. If the first 13 questions didn't give it away. What is your gender? - Male
Well there you go. I'm probably what most would refer to as an elder goth. I put a picture on my profile that is from Halloween 2013 so you can be the judge.
Nice to meet everybody and I hope this place turns out to be as cool as it seems on first impression. Feel free to contact me about whatever, I'm easygoing and I like people and I'm willing to chat.
Take care!
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