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Old 11-20-2012, 12:00 PM   #3851
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Thought I was behind on labwork in my Circuit II class, turns out I'm ahead!
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Old 11-20-2012, 11:03 PM   #3852
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Third therapist in 5 sessions... and I think that this one might fit.

She's very organised, is excited that I want to work hard instead of being intimidated and is totally on board with the goal of staying off medication.
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Old 11-20-2012, 11:20 PM   #3853
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Third therapist in 5 sessions... and I think that this one might fit.

She's very organised, is excited that I want to work hard instead of being intimidated and is totally on board with the goal of staying off medication.
what type of medicine are you taking ?
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Old 11-21-2012, 12:35 AM   #3854
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I'm not taking any medication.. that's why my goal is to stay *off* of it.
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Old 11-21-2012, 07:11 AM   #3855
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Third therapist in 5 sessions... and I think that this one might fit.

She's very organised, is excited that I want to work hard instead of being intimidated and is totally on board with the goal of staying off medication.
That's awesome MissA! A friend keeps recommending I go to therapy and get on meds, and I've refused it each time.
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Old 11-21-2012, 12:29 PM   #3856
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Thanks.

I think that therapy is definitely worth it.. even if it's just to learn coping mechanisms to make things easier.. or at least make things not as difficult. But I also think that it is something that is going to just be a waste of time unless the person wants to be there.

I think that meds work for some people - and if people need them and they work for them, then that is great. But I also think that we over-pathologise and over-medicate to a huge extent.
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Old 11-21-2012, 02:04 PM   #3857
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Thanks.

I think that therapy is definitely worth it.. even if it's just to learn coping mechanisms to make things easier.. or at least make things not as difficult. But I also think that it is something that is going to just be a waste of time unless the person wants to be there.

I think that meds work for some people - and if people need them and they work for them, then that is great. But I also think that we over-pathologise and over-medicate to a huge extent.
therapy and medication is a joke, you don't need it and are better than them .. at least I hope
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Old 11-21-2012, 04:52 PM   #3858
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Old 11-21-2012, 05:16 PM   #3859
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We're all aware that pothead is a puppet troll of Kontan or Despanan, right?

ETA: Although if you google image his picture, he's either an elaborate ruse or real. Hilarious.
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Old 11-21-2012, 05:25 PM   #3860
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Fuck off, Pothead.
what was it, that I said your better than therapy? they are not any better than you are they just are certified dope dealers
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Old 11-21-2012, 05:27 PM   #3861
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We're all aware that pothead is a puppet troll of Kontan or Despanan, right?

ETA: Although if you google image his picture, he's either an elaborate ruse or real. Hilarious.
what comes up when you google image my picture ? and hey I am a old new person, I am not a troll though, you know people who offend others are called trolls, so I say your a troll ...lol
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Old 11-21-2012, 05:39 PM   #3862
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A facebook page, a street address, a google page, and a very odd video. I'm going with militant atheist christian impersonator friend troll now.
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Old 11-21-2012, 05:48 PM   #3863
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A facebook page, a street address, a google page, and a very odd video. I'm going with militant atheist christian impersonator friend troll now.
whats my street address ?
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Old 11-22-2012, 01:45 PM   #3864
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I managed to figure out what the problem with my MSN messenger was! For a few days, it has been lagging severely whenever I wanted to open a new chat or a popup came, and it could take several minutes to respond.
I tried virus scanning, removing malware, uninstalling and everything. Turned out it was when Java updated, it placed a new version of Java but didn't remove the old one, so I had two versions of Java conflicting on my machine.
After removing the old one, the problem went away.
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Old 11-22-2012, 03:39 PM   #3865
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I can't use MSN messenger anymore.. it was driving me to despair by crashing constantly and lagging so much.

I wonder if it might be the same problem.

I use Skype and GTalk now.. I love them!
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Old 11-22-2012, 03:47 PM   #3866
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Miss A: It might be - regardless of the future of your MSN usage, I suggest you check this out as it can cause a variety of other problems on Java-based applications on your machine. Minecraft will lag like crazy if this affliction has hit you as well. And it is an ever-present problem whenever Java updates. For a big, world-wide application like Java, they sure suck at writing proper update extrating software...
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Old 11-22-2012, 04:11 PM   #3867
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TR: I'll totes check on it. Thank you.
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Old 11-23-2012, 04:41 AM   #3868
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Old 11-23-2012, 09:55 AM   #3869
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I have just replaced MSN with Skype. Since Skype is officially replacing MSN sometime next year anyway I may as well just do it now.

The dog has been cheering me up with her daft antics. She's rather naughty and very cute. She jumps around like a jack in the box, and spins mid-leap when you prepare dinner because she's impaitient and excited.

She'd make a bloody good ratter ( which I was surprised to learn still goes on ) the way she can worm into small spaces down furniture/behind my back/under knees . Very determined to get the "rat" which is in facy my hand. She stands proper four square and really shakes her toys around . I can see why Jack Russels were/are used for ratting !!!
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Old 11-24-2012, 01:53 AM   #3870
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Thanks.

I think that therapy is definitely worth it.. even if it's just to learn coping mechanisms to make things easier.. or at least make things not as difficult. But I also think that it is something that is going to just be a waste of time unless the person wants to be there.

I think that meds work for some people - and if people need them and they work for them, then that is great. But I also think that we over-pathologise and over-medicate to a huge extent.
Congrats on finding a therapist that works for you.

Sometimes it's good to go on meds, to give you a break, so alternative therapies can have time to work.

I never wanted to go on meds, then decided I was sick of struggling along, went on meds, while I developed coping strategies and then came off the meds.

I agree we over medicate ourselves, but sometimes you just need to be kind to yourself.

WMMD:- not thinking about tomorrow, focusing on today, and listening to a segment on Radio National about the benefits of meditation practices - a nice gentle reminder that i need to meditate more!
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Old 11-24-2012, 05:10 PM   #3871
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Congrats on finding a therapist that works for you.

Sometimes it's good to go on meds, to give you a break, so alternative therapies can have time to work.

I never wanted to go on meds, then decided I was sick of struggling along, went on meds, while I developed coping strategies and then came off the meds.

I agree we over medicate ourselves, but sometimes you just need to be kind to yourself.

WMMD:- not thinking about tomorrow, focusing on today, and listening to a segment on Radio National about the benefits of meditation practices - a nice gentle reminder that i need to meditate more!
Thanks for the congrats. I'm feeling really positive about the process again. I was quite scared that I was losing motivation to get things sorted and that I wouldn't have the momentum to follow through with it all.

I understand that about meds, and I don't begrudge the people that they work for the opportunity to have them. Personally, I've tried a number of different medications and combinations over the years, and the side effects have been horrible - both short term, and long term.

I'm a lot more stable and a lot more able to cope with things when I'm not medicated. They do work for a lot of people, I'm just not one of those people.

WMMD: I went out for pizza and cocktails with friends last night - which was fabulous fun.. but more than that, there was a new person who turned up to the group and chatting to him later he told me that he had a great time. There was another girl there who rarely comes out to events, and she said that she's really looking forward to the next one. And two of my friends from another 'circle of friends' came along as well, and they loved it.

I'm always surprised when I organise an event and people enjoy it.
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Old 11-24-2012, 09:37 PM   #3872
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Finding this.

http://mashable.com/2012/11/22/sleep...us-Sleepy-Baby

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Old 11-25-2012, 04:55 AM   #3873
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Jaye: D'awww.... :3 That is so cute!!
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Old 11-25-2012, 07:48 AM   #3874
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Jaye: D'awww.... :3 That is so cute!!
Glad you liked it, TR. My fave is #11.
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Old 11-25-2012, 08:36 AM   #3875
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I don't like babies I am afraid.... :b
But I liked it a lot :3
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