i have never posted here, but i would like to ask some questions, i hope you dont mind
i am having a identity crisis, i really dont care what people think, most of the time anyway. but sometimes i do, i am worried about being called a poser sometimes.
i know some people are called posers, your a poser if you wear a band t-shirt if you barley know who they are. or try to be goth just to be cool or fit in somewhere. did i get it right?
i dont, but i dont know where the lines go or what it really means?
but are you a poser if your not trying to be something (for ex goth) or fit in somewhere and are just inspired by it? or if your just dressing in it cause you like it so much you can't help it? and really dont care if your cool or
what people think?
i like so much different kinds of fashions styles and music
but some fashionstyles i dont know everyhting about the music associated with it though, maybe nothing in some cases.
is it for example wrong to:
mix different fashion styles?
to dress a style but aren't interesting in the music (or books, film or other interests)?
i dont know goth by any other way than from the internet.
i know there are different stereotypes of goth. it cant work like that in reality? but still.. can you dress cyber goth and listen to almost only old school goth for example?
i understand that you may not listen to only one kind of music all the time, after all we are all different, but you understand?
i dont want to dress only according to what i listen or am intersted in
theres so much pretty things to wear!!
isn't it more wrong to shop at H&M and all that crap if you hate it rather than goth or whatever, whether what you read, listen or am interested in?
i am interested in more than the fashion of course, a lot more, but i dont know where to begin. and i like so much out of everything in fashion.
i somethimes feel that i dont belong anywhere
but at the same time i am thinking that goth is just a lable (or whatever bad at english)
you can't lable a person. why should i dress in a way i dont like?
why should i care at all? im not running around screaming "look at me the biggest coolest goth of all". I just trying to be myself.
so: is there ever a wrong way to dress?
hmmm..yep a really long thread, i do care too much