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Old 03-08-2011, 11:16 AM   #76
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I've asked guys out, but I usually only do it when I'm pretty certain that they'll say yes. But my current crush is a girl and I have no idea how to read her
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Old 03-08-2011, 11:20 AM   #77
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...I have the same problems myself. Seems i make situations pretty awkward. Oh the stories i have. I never can tell if i have a chance or not. That and girls around here aren't interested in a sarcastic, Victorian styled, loser like me.
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I bet that's even more difficult!
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Old 03-08-2011, 11:26 AM   #79
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...I have the same problems myself. Seems i make situations pretty awkward. Oh the stories i have. I never can tell if i have a chance or not. That and girls around here aren't interested in a sarcastic, Victorian styled, loser like me.
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Old 03-08-2011, 12:46 PM   #80
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I've asked guys out, but I usually only do it when I'm pretty certain that they'll say yes. But my current crush is a girl and I have no idea how to read her
Yeah it is a bit more difficult with girls, especially when you don't even know if they are into girls.
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Old 03-08-2011, 12:47 PM   #81
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Oh, she's pansexual, so I'm good there.
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Old 03-08-2011, 12:50 PM   #82
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Well that's a plus.
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Old 03-08-2011, 05:44 PM   #83
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You all are silly.

I think it's funny how often pretty women are shy. The great part about it is that most guys are too intimidated to even talk to you, so I don't usually feel pressured to compete for any of your attention.

Personally, I'm more likely to approach a woman that I want to see naked then one I'm interested in pursuing a relationship with. Is that weird?
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Old 03-08-2011, 05:56 PM   #84
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I'm the same way, I think it is because the rejection is a lot easier to shrug off than it is with someone you want an actual relationship with.
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I can't relate, being vulcansexual and all.
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Old 03-08-2011, 06:03 PM   #86
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So then this girl that you volunteer with is a Vulcan?
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Old 03-08-2011, 06:05 PM   #87
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Pretty much. It's especially irritating because my exposure to relationshipable women is practically non-existent. Other then house parties or similarly artificial environments, I really don't have the opportunity to get to know anyone enough to want to mind-fuck them. It bothers me a little. It's seriously been a while since I've met a woman in person that I've wanted to pursue in that way.

Also. Vulcansexual...?
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If it makes you feel any better I have plenty of exposure to women and have only met a handful that were relationshipable.
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So then this girl that you volunteer with is a Vulcan?
<nerd>Vulcans have sex outside their species! Spock is actually half Vulcan.

But I don't have casual sex because when I'm outside of a relationship I'm pretty indifferent to it, and I have pretty high standards because its illogical to date anyone less awesome than me. The exception is that once in a blue moon I will absolutely crave sex, my pon farr if you will. It won't kill me if I don't have sex during this time, but I will be pretty sad. </nerd>
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Old 03-08-2011, 06:12 PM   #90
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Every man I meet is either straight, married, in a relationship, or really not what I'm looking for. :/

Mind you, I'm swimming in a very small pool right now.
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Saya I can relate to that. For the most part I am rather indifferent to sex when I'm not in a relationship but every now and then there are people who just make me want to pounce, and I usually do.
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If it makes you feel any better I have plenty of exposure to women and have only met a handful that were relationshipable.
The future is dim for the boots.

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<nerd>Vulcans have sex outside their species! Spock is actually half Vulcan.

But I don't have casual sex because when I'm outside of a relationship I'm pretty indifferent to it, and I have pretty high standards because its illogical to date anyone less awesome than me. The exception is that once in a blue moon I will absolutely crave sex, my pon farr if you will. It won't kill me if I don't have sex during this time, but I will be pretty sad. </nerd>
It's hard to be indifferent to pretty ladies. You are, in fact, a robot. But not like Bender or Johnny 5.

EDIT: Does that make SCC a robot, too?
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It's hard to be indifferent to pretty ladies. You are, in fact, a robot. But not like Bender or Johnny 5.
I'm a vulcansexual!

I felt the need to come up with my own label since asexual bisesexual/pansexual doesn't fit me.
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I do not comprehend how I am a robot.
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Because you can resist the pretty ladies.
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I'm a vulcansexual!

I felt the need to come up with my own label since asexual bisesexual/pansexual doesn't fit me.
I know the feeling.
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Because you can resist the pretty ladies.

I could say A LOT of things about this. Instead, I'll just pretend to be a robot.
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I could say A LOT of things about this. Instead, I'll just pretend to be a robot.
I've got nothing but time, brother. Homework isn't really my cup of tea. I feel like booze barely keeps it interesting.
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I've got nothing but time, brother. Homework isn't really my cup of tea. I feel like booze barely keeps it interesting.
But I'm lazy and I really shouldn't have to say anything.
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Didn’t you know all gay men are secretly robots?
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