Parent's problem

$haDe · 03-04-2008, 11:09 PM

Is there any of u guy,Gothic.net...

Having serious problem of parents that anti-THIS KIND OF STUFF...

count me in...

Today i go to my 'home'... I mean where i was raised..
It's my mom's birthday..

But my 'dad' thrown me out,Shouted at me that the whole village can hear
"You r not my son,U emo freaks..!!"

(I'm not emo,dad...)

I sneaked in just to say HBD in surprised to my 'mom'..
I mean the woman who raised me...

But she called the cops and throw me out again....

So.. whatever,It's not that interesting or THAT tragic...

How 'bout u guy..

Tha Duckman · 03-05-2008, 05:20 AM

Yeah, I like chicken.

???

$haDe · 03-05-2008, 07:51 AM

I prefered the first class mr. duck

hehe

Noumi · 03-05-2008, 09:27 AM

That really sucks...
Sometimes my mom and dad are bitches but I care about them, they´ve never beat me or starved me...

L'Oiseau Noir · 03-05-2008, 10:48 AM

Well, from what I gather you live in a village, which generally means a small settlement of sorts (well duh, but I always play Captain Obvious).

Anyway, the reason might be because the people (including your parents) who live in your area probably don't have much exposure to other fashion styles, music, and so on. They might just be doing it because you're different, and people tend to dislike (generally) what's different because they don't fully understand it. I mean, for the longest time people thought the world was flat, and those who said it was round were "crazy."

All I can say is stake it out; when things have cooled, however, sit down and talk to your parents and make them understand you're not some freak. They're your parents, and they love you, and I'm sure they'll hear you out if you earnestly ask it.

I'll be honest though, I don't know how anyone could throw you out. You're just so damn adorable.

Just keep your chin up, my friend. It'll get better.

$haDe · 03-05-2008, 08:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by L'Oiseau Noir

Well, from what I gather you live in a village, which generally means a small settlement of sorts (well duh, but I always play Captain Obvious).

Anyway, the reason might be because the people (including your parents) who live in your area probably don't have much exposure to other fashion styles, music, and so on. They might just be doing it because you're different, and people tend to dislike (generally) what's different because they don't fully understand it. I mean, for the longest time people thought the world was flat, and those who said it was round were "crazy."

All I can say is stake it out; when things have cooled, however, sit down and talk to your parents and make them understand you're not some freak. They're your parents, and they love you, and I'm sure they'll hear you out if you earnestly ask it.

I'll be honest though, I don't know how anyone could throw you out. You're just so damn adorable.

Just keep your chin up, my friend. It'll get better.

Thx for this... But actually I mean the whole country ...

I'll wait for that day :P

I've been waiting for 3 years, more would be fine..

Wormboy · 03-05-2008, 11:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by L'Oiseau Noir

I'll be honest though, I don't know how anyone could throw you out. You're just so damn adorable.

Quoted for truth

Magila · 03-06-2008, 01:56 AM

Why over doing your look while you're in a country that has no folks that are living an alternative life ?

drewsilla · 03-06-2008, 03:01 AM

Awwww, you are such a tiny little cute thing!! I wanna put you in my pocket and adopt you!!

You might just have to tone it down image-wise while you live at home. It won't be too long untill you can leave home and do as you wish. Sometimes parents are pretty narrow minded when it comes to things that matter to their kids, and that includes the way one dresses. I'm not telling you to totally stop dressing the way you do. Just suggesting, for the time being, to maybe compromise with the parental units. Hopefully they will calm down and realize that you are not crazy. If you want to express yourself, try it in small bits, just to expose them to what you like. They might find that they even like it. You both have to give each other a chance.

Good luck!!

$haDe · 03-06-2008, 05:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by drewsilla

Awwww, you are such a tiny little cute thing!! I wanna put you in my pocket and adopt you!!

You might just have to tone it down image-wise while you live at home. It won't be too long untill you can leave home and do as you wish. Sometimes parents are pretty narrow minded when it comes to things that matter to their kids, and that includes the way one dresses. I'm not telling you to totally stop dressing the way you do. Just suggesting, for the time being, to maybe compromise with the parental units. Hopefully they will calm down and realize that you are not crazy. If you want to express yourself, try it in small bits, just to expose them to what you like. They might find that they even like it. You both have to give each other a chance.

Good luck!!

I did actually left since i was 13..
'till now I lived with my brother

By the way, Though they didn't THAT nice to me either...

I mean I can't just stayed there and let them embarrased 'cos of my look...

U know what, Since i was born stupid prophet told them that I was born in very bad time where only hell freaks choose to born....

18 Nov 6.18 pm. <<No kidding. I've checked my birth cirtificate...

I guessed that's why they acted like this

Bythe way, Thx all of u..!!

drewsilla · 03-06-2008, 10:51 AM

Well, since you are on your own, I'd say fuck them!! That's crazy, someone telling them that you were born wrong because you were born "under a bad sign".

By the way, my birthdate is November 17th, and my hubby's is November 19th. Nothing wrong with us, just like there's nothing wrong with you!

Metabolik · 03-06-2008, 01:36 PM

I don't really have a relationship with my father, I only got my mum...and you don't wanna hear the fights we get into :S

SaFraudAlSaMeno · 03-06-2008, 01:40 PM

My parents being Chinese and being brought up in Hong Kong have had little experience with other sub-cultures and therefore are quite narrow-minded. They think that it will be a bad influence on me but I am continuously proving them wrong, hopefully they can soon understand that it isn't so bad. I don't fail any of my subjects and I have lived a life without succumbing to alcohol, smoking and drugs. So, hopefully, they will change their opinions or at least be more open-minded.

Sinless · 03-06-2008, 01:44 PM

My parents are anti-child growing up. When I moved out of the house, my Mom gave me this LOOOOOOONG speech about how I will always be her little baby, and how I can always return home. I do come home, after my rent runs out, and then my parents are protective of me again. I can't even leave the house without a cellphone so they know where I am 24/7. They want to know who my friends are, and what they are like. My Mom still calls me, "Baby babi bo girl." (baby babee bo girl)

Tha Duckman · 03-06-2008, 02:48 PM

I have no idea where my family are. Am I cute now?

emeraldlonewoulf · 03-06-2008, 02:53 PM

of course, Duck! absolutely adorable, in that sick, twisted, oversexed way we've all come to know and love....

Tha Duckman · 03-06-2008, 02:55 PM

Can I see yr tits 'cuz I'm so damn cute, and it just might inspire me to go on a journey of self discovery, only to find out that all I will ever need is right here, next to my computer?