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Old 12-28-2005, 10:07 PM   #651
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Old 12-28-2005, 10:14 PM   #652
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Old 12-29-2005, 06:42 AM   #653
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Here's a vote for lust too. Love is a grand experience overall, but for me pure sex is more powerful and exhilerating when powered by lust. I am lucky to have found a number of female friends that feel the same way, and it is amazing.
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Old 12-29-2005, 02:05 PM   #654
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I saw the words sexy and beast in the same sentence and came right over.
Came right over what? (waggles eyebrows)
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Old 12-29-2005, 05:32 PM   #655
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Here's a vote for lust too. Love is a grand experience overall, but for me pure sex is more powerful and exhilerating when powered by lust. I am lucky to have found a number of female friends that feel the same way, and it is amazing.
So basically, what you are saying, is that sex with lust can be just as, if not more passionate than sex with love? (in your personal opinion) I Think that for men, this might be, but if you talk to the majority of women(ones who are married) sex just might be better with love than with lust.
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Old 12-29-2005, 07:08 PM   #656
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You know, I don't think love is as glamorous as Disney makes it out to be.
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Old 12-29-2005, 10:34 PM   #657
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Cholocates? Is that some new kind of drug? *wink*

Me an meh man, we love... dearly... but when sex is involved all that silly lovey dovey shit is mute. Perhaps our practice is mostly my fault, we never share fond sediment during or directly after the act... I, for some reason, can't and won't relate the heightened sensitivity of stimulated genitals to an emotional relation with my lover.
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Old 12-29-2005, 10:57 PM   #658
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With me, we do share some type of fondness, whether it is biting or something else, it is always a little gesture saying that "Hey, I know your name" or "I'm here". Nothing too big, but something.
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Old 12-29-2005, 11:12 PM   #659
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"Death by Chocolate" at Bennigans is a guaranteed turn on. I was there once with my best friend and his girlfriend when we got one. We all just got this look of OMG on our face when we took our first bites. He got laid hardcore that night. And I'm telling you, it was definitely the chocolate.
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Old 12-29-2005, 11:24 PM   #660
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*teehee* It's a chocolate piece of cake slathered in chocolate with a saucer of chocolate sauce on the side-

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Old 12-29-2005, 11:48 PM   #661
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After 5 years of "Death by Chocolate" at your finger tips it loses its "killer instincts"... yuk.
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Old 12-30-2005, 04:20 AM   #662
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You are right about all that. Here is my thinking. Many people choose to find a reason to discount, degrade or diminish other people around them ... by selectively focusing on whatever difference they can find. Whether it is because you are short, of a different ethnic origin or skin color, or your body is proportioned differently in some way, it all comes from the same ill-meaning place.

Ignore them all. Dress as pleases you. If people disrespect you or make some kind of assumption about you, deal with them from a place of dignity, grace and self-respect ... in other words, ignore them.

And if you ever pass in my vicinity wearing something that displays a tempting bit of decolletage, I will cast my appreciative eyes your way and assume nothing more than you've decided to make the room a little more beautiful.
AWWWWWWWWW! aren't you a sweetie?
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Old 12-30-2005, 04:35 AM   #663
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WARNING: sig otherand I went away for a filthy christmas break. We made a discovery. Never EVER engage in bondage using christmas lights!
Not only do you get little pieces of glass in both parties, but tiney little burn marks as well. Pain but not in a fun way.
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Old 12-30-2005, 06:12 AM   #664
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So basically, what you are saying, is that sex with lust can be just as, if not more passionate than sex with love? (in your personal opinion) I Think that for men, this might be, but if you talk to the majority of women(ones who are married) sex just might be better with love than with lust.
Yes, I do believe that. In fact, I believe that some women do not have the most exhilirating sex because they can't liberate their mind from the idea that love is more important than lust (instead of thinking they might be equally important) ... it keeps them from getting in touch with their lust. I think men have a more direct connection to that, and have an easier time enjoying sex completely because of that.

Under ideal circumstances, my partner and I would love each other completely, but on a regular basis she would forget all that and just let loose like a lust crazed nympho in bed - reaching the most raw, basest emotions and senses.

And yes, I think it's possible to have both at once, but extremely difficult for most people without going through that pure lust state with your lover first.
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Old 12-30-2005, 06:30 AM   #665
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... I, for some reason, can't and won't relate the heightened sensitivity of stimulated genitals to an emotional relation with my lover.
Amen. I'm with you on that thinking.
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Old 12-30-2005, 12:15 PM   #666
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I think that lust and love are one and the same, but as the world at large has a fixation with manogomy we have to choose "the one" and anyone else other than them has to be put down as a lustfull wish or a lustfull affair that "doesn't mean anything" when of course it does.
Humans share a common ancestor with the bonobo chimp, the most lustful ceatures on the planet (worth a trip to the zoo to see the little fuckers in action). These creaturse solve any issue with a good hard shagging, no matter what the gender thier lover at the time may be. Can'thelp but think we should be more like that.
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Old 12-30-2005, 01:11 PM   #667
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This from the woman who called me a sweetie earlier. LMAO!!!!
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Old 12-30-2005, 01:12 PM   #668
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Old 12-30-2005, 01:18 PM   #669
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True enough ... as have we all.

BTW, I have lusted for women I did not love ... and I have known women who have said they had lusted for men they did not love ... and I have loved a woman I felt no lust for ...

so I do not agree that love and lust are the same thing.

I'm with you on the over-attachment to monogamy, though.
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I'm looking for this man, to sell him to other men; to sell him to other men, for ten times his price at least.....

Wish you could do that.
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I'm looking for this man, to sell him to other men; to sell him to other men, for ten times his price at least.....

Wish you could do that.
o0o0o Headhunter..

Nice.
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Old 12-30-2005, 02:19 PM   #672
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Old 12-30-2005, 03:45 PM   #673
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o0o0o Headhunter..

Nice.
Guess we can both give ourselves a pat on the back for having amazing taste in music...
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Old 12-30-2005, 11:51 PM   #674
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I lust for Ben's avatar. She calls to me, like a succubus in the night, a whispering beansidhe, a Delilah to my, uh, other Delilah...
That pleases me. I felt the same way when I found the origianl clip ... except for the Delilah part ... ha ha ha
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On the condum box it says "Water proof" Is that a good thing?
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