Sigh

Broken* · 03-16-2007, 02:46 PM

My bf and the girl I was cheating on my bf with both dumped me

Underwater Ophelia · 03-16-2007, 02:55 PM

Asstard.
Stop trolling.

Delicate_Torture · 03-16-2007, 03:10 PM

Well, well. Isn't karma a wonderous thing.

Twat.

Broken* · 03-16-2007, 03:18 PM

I know it was a mistake that's why I am only sighing now not sobbing I realize I was totaly stupid to cheat

maggot · 03-16-2007, 03:34 PM

Why the hell are you telling us?

You were just flamed by some of the nicer people on this forum. You will not get along here.

Every single girlfriend I've ever had has cheated on me. Even my current one lost her virginity to someone else [when I first got with her, she was a virgin].

You had better realise that what you got is an understatement of what you fucking deserve, you dolt.

You're not getting any sympathy.

Underwater Ophelia · 03-16-2007, 05:07 PM

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Originally Posted by maggot

Why the hell are you telling us?

You were just flamed by some of the nicer people on this forum. You will not get along here.

Every single girlfriend I've ever had has cheated on me. Even my current one lost her virginity to someone else [when I first got with her, she was a virgin].

You had better realise that what you got is an understatement of what you fucking deserve, you dolt.

You're not getting any sympathy.

Aw, Maggot, that's terrible. Why are you with her if she's like that? I don't think you deserve that.

MotherofMercies · 03-16-2007, 05:31 PM

I just found out my boyfriend is my half brother.

*sigh*

Underwater Ophelia · 03-16-2007, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by MotherofMercies

I just found out my boyfriend is my half brother.

*sigh*

Are you serious?
That...sucks...but, and I know a lot of people will think this is gross; don't worry about it. Not until you're thinking of children.

maggot · 03-16-2007, 05:33 PM

Because it didn't change my feelings about her.

She was also really sorry.
She even stopped smoking cold turkey just to prove it to me.
Any time I bring it up, she starts sobbing.

You know what they say- True love never dies.

Even though it's gonna take a long time for me to fully trust her again, it kinda seems like it brought us closer.

It still hurts me so much every day, though. So much.
It's not as bad as it used to be. It used to come into my mind every hour, and I'd want to kill myself.

Now I think about it a few times a day, and it's more of dull heartache.

Did I mention that she's the only one of my girlfriends who was ever sorry about it?
I could never give her up, because I really do love her, and I know she loves me back <333

And I have very good proof for her loving me, even though it kind of scares me.
One time, she thought I was breaking up with her. She started freaking out, and not like the "oh god!" type of freaking out, like the She completely lost it, spasms, shrieking, having trouble breathing. The whole thing. o_o

She says she was dieing.

Yeah. If that's not good proof, you can just shoot me.

MotherofMercies · 03-16-2007, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by Underwater Ophelia

Are you serious?
That...sucks...but, and I know a lot of people will think this is gross; don't worry about it. Not until you're thinking of children.

Lol not serious. I'm suffering a hangover and I thought it would be funny to rip on the thread. But yeah I agree, it would suck.

HumanePain · 03-16-2007, 05:40 PM

Awww Mag...

I usually have something to say about everything.

I don't know what I should say about this though, except we're all with you man. (sigh)

maggot · 03-16-2007, 05:52 PM

Thanks.

It's something that I'm kind of just learning to live with, because I get over things really slowly. Like, it'll probably be 5 years before I can forget about it.

I think that people are more kind about it here, though. On another forum where I've brought it up, everyone was telling me 'Dump that bitch! You're such a complete moron and jackass for staying with her!" >(
They didn't realise that I didn't want to hear that.

They then all proceeded to make fun of me o_O

But yeah, it doesn't hurt as much anymore.

Clockwork · 03-16-2007, 11:33 PM

Oh, what do we do when our bodies gain control of our minds? Normally get the deserved reprimand, like Broken*. Take this as a lesson and truly think about where your commitments lie, you.

As for you, maggot, I'm sorry such a thing had to happen to you - but like you said, it brought the two of you closer in a way. One of the worst things that happened to me with another person brought us closer together, after it all healed up. I think you're noble for sticking with her... I don't know that I'd have the patience in this situation. In other words... go you.

Godslayer Jillian · 03-17-2007, 01:52 AM

Let's keep in mind this is the same idiot that thought was cool because she likes cutting herself.
Either she's a troll, or she's an idiot.
In either case, we should make fun of it all.

shelldoo · 03-17-2007, 07:26 AM

Maggot, I have respect for you staying, and working things through. I don't know that I could, I have a zero tolerance policy. But I am always in awe when people do hang in there through disloyalty.

wishcat · 03-17-2007, 07:50 AM

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Originally Posted by maggot

Because it didn't change my feelings about her.

She was also really sorry.

It still hurts me so much every day, though. So much.
It's not as bad as it used to be. It used to come into my mind every hour, and I'd want to kill myself.

Now I think about it a few times a day, and it's more of dull heartache.

Did I mention that she's the only one of my girlfriends who was ever sorry about it?
I could never give her up, because I really do love her, and I know she loves me back <333

Aww Maggot, I'm sorry to hear what happened to you. It takes time to get over something like that. I believe that some people do deserve a second chance. Seems like she really does care about you and that she is trully sorry. If you have it in your heart to forgive her and save the relationship, I wish you the very best and hope your wounds heal soon.

MollyMac · 03-17-2007, 08:49 AM

Aww.

Nobody loves you.

Everybody hates you.

Why don't you go eat worms?

theradicalviper · 03-17-2007, 01:37 PM

woops accidental double post

theradicalviper · 03-17-2007, 01:38 PM

I'll fetch the violin

by the way, shouldn't this be in whining?

Godslayer Jillian · 03-17-2007, 01:39 PM

Now that kind of attitude I prefer in you, viper; rather than the nonsensical annoying viper you have developed.

theradicalviper · 03-17-2007, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Godslayer Jillian

Now that kind of attitude I prefer in you, viper; rather than the nonsensical annoying viper you have developed.

yeah I've shed the hyperactive skin now ive got a brand-spanking new sarcastic skin....thats purple

theradicalviper · 03-17-2007, 01:50 PM

what time is it over there in America?

Delicate_Torture · 03-17-2007, 01:54 PM

Maggot, I think it is great that you are working through what happened with your girlfriend. It shows a real maturity and dedication to your relationship on your part. People make mistakes everyday, and the important part of apologising for it is making sure that you change your behaviour. It is going to take a long time for you to fully build that trust for her again, but it will happen.

I'm in a similar but different situation with my girlfriend. I'm not a very sexual person at all and she is, so we have an open relationship. This means that she gets to sleep with who she wants to, when she wants to, within certain guidelines, and so do I... but because I don't like sex I don't sleep with anyone. It does effect the trust between us, but it is something that we are constantly working at and I found that it was better than wondering if something was happening with someone... because this way we are completely honest with each other.

Trust is something that is built over time, which means that you can also repair it over time. Good luck with that.

maggot · 03-17-2007, 03:36 PM

I love kind words. I get them so rarely anywhere else.

This is my second home.

wishcat · 03-17-2007, 03:42 PM

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Originally Posted by maggot

I love kind words. I get them so rarely anywhere else.

This is my second home.

I know exactly how you feel. I never really got kind words at home or anywhere else. I would only hear kind words from my boyfriend. **hugs**