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11-09-2009, 01:42 PM
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#651
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Sheffield UK.
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Originally Posted by Not Tha Duckman
That is one funny looking bint.
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You're right 'bout that.
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11-09-2009, 01:44 PM
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#652
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Join Date: Jun 2006
Location: In the broken temple bells, in the ringing...
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That bra = NO.
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11-09-2009, 06:57 PM
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#653
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: colorado USA
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Originally Posted by LovelyxBlackLace
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I need to hear that song. I am guessing my daughter's been singing it the past few days.
Corset's not bad =) I hope some day i can find one that compliments me well.
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11-09-2009, 07:23 PM
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#654
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Gallifrey
Posts: 2,817
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I am trying to find a way to throw myself at my boyfriend while simultaneously playing hard to get. So far, no luck.
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11-09-2009, 07:39 PM
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#655
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Um, lower, oh yeah, uh, uh ... YES THERE!
Posts: 6,738
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Yeah, not sure how you do that. Lead him on a little if you want, but don't be a tease.
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11-09-2009, 07:41 PM
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#656
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Gallifrey
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No I'm trying to make him be romantic with me again, but my grandmother told me he acts bored with me because I was too available all the time. Then again I'm worried if I just go along with his apathetic attitude it'll just increase it.
Hence my dillema. I think he just doesn't like me anymore.
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11-09-2009, 08:06 PM
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#657
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Um, lower, oh yeah, uh, uh ... YES THERE!
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Yeah, if he acts bored with you all the time, then my hunch is that the relationship is based on superficial things that don't last.
For instance, if he is excited by the pursuit and conquest aspect of getting to know you, and is now bored because you're too easily available, you might be able to breath some temporary life into the relationship by playing hard to get. But at the end of the day, you know that he's not in it for the long run. If you still want to have some fun with it, then that's okay.
But if you are looking for a deeper, more mature emotional relationship, you probably just need to ask him if he's bored and why. The truth will set you free.
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Lead me not into temptation ... follow me, I know a shortcut!
As the poets have mournfully sung,
death takes the innocent young,
the rolling in money,
the screamingly funny,
and those who are very well hung.
Your days are numbered - 26,280 per person on average - 2,000,000,000 heartbeats ... tick, tick, tick
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11-09-2009, 09:15 PM
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#658
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Gallifrey
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Aw, I've asked a million times. He always says he's not bored, that he's into me, that he's "worried I don't understand how much he loves me, because if I can't see it then there are big problems", that he loves to be around me, stuff like that.
I could just be crazy. Maybe he's just tired from his new job, maybe he's stressed. I dunno. I can't ask him to change his behavior. I don't want him to do things for me because I TOLD him to, that misses the point entirely.
Either way, I can't ask him about it because either there really isn't a problem and I'm nuts or he's just the world's most persistent liar.
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11-09-2009, 10:39 PM
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#659
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
Posts: 8,030
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Chances are that he has just become a little too comfortable in the relationship and needs something to get him out of the rut. Try taking him out and do something that you two have never done, you would be amazed how one hour completely outside of your routine can change someone's attitude and perspective.
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11-09-2009, 11:57 PM
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#660
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Gallifrey
Posts: 2,817
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Hmm, good idea. I shall take him kart racing.
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11-10-2009, 12:18 AM
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#661
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
Posts: 8,030
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Sounds like fun. Jake and I have been in the same situation a few times and just getting out and doing something is usually all it takes to get the fun and romance back so hopefully the same will be true for you two.
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11-10-2009, 01:15 AM
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#662
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: SO-IL
Posts: 410
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... So my friend's boyfriend just a got a bunch of really expensive ghost-hunting shit, and I've been going along for the ride. We obviously haven't found anything, but it's a good enough excuse for me to get to sneak into a bunch of abandoned buildings. So, no ghosts, but we did find my dead friend's graffitti in a building that used to be an asylumn, and it's been pretty fun.
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11-10-2009, 04:09 AM
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#663
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Posts: 2,721
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Originally Posted by Pineapple_Juice
Aw, I've asked a million times. He always says he's not bored, that he's into me, that he's "worried I don't understand how much he loves me, because if I can't see it then there are big problems", that he loves to be around me, stuff like that.
I could just be crazy. Maybe he's just tired from his new job, maybe he's stressed. I dunno. I can't ask him to change his behavior. I don't want him to do things for me because I TOLD him to, that misses the point entirely.
Either way, I can't ask him about it because either there really isn't a problem and I'm nuts or he's just the world's most persistent liar.
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How long have you guys been together? If you're the sensitive type (you don't seem particularly prone to puss-hurt on here, but maybe you have a different approach to IRL relationships so it's worth asking), it could be that what you're interpreting as boredom really just means that he's grown comfortable enough to drop the gestures we often perform when we're trying to make an initial connection with somebody.
"Romance" as defined by popular culture is mostly bullshit. Then again, that may not be relevant here, depending on how you're defining it. When you say the romance is waning, do you mean thathe no longer goes out of his way to buy gifts for you and take you out to nice places, or that he is no longer considerate in general everyday life and doesn't seem to care whether he spends time with you or not? Whether he really is bored with you depends completely upon how the behavior that leads you to this conclusion is manifesting.
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11-10-2009, 05:02 AM
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#664
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Join Date: Nov 2009
Location: Ingary
Posts: 145
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Originally Posted by Pineapple_Juice
I am trying to find a way to throw myself at my boyfriend while simultaneously playing hard to get. So far, no luck.
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Flirt with other guys when he's around. Get your game on pineapple!
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11-10-2009, 06:23 AM
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#665
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Join Date: Dec 2005
Location: Um, lower, oh yeah, uh, uh ... YES THERE!
Posts: 6,738
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Originally Posted by Solumina
Chances are that he has just become a little too comfortable in the relationship and needs something to get him out of the rut. Try taking him out and do something that you two have never done, you would be amazed how one hour completely outside of your routine can change someone's attitude and perspective.
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THIS is really good, sensitive and sensible advice. PJ, ignore what I said in a fit of pragmatic cynicism and listen to Solumina. If you care enough about the guy to worry this much, it's worth making the effort to shake things up.
And kart racing ... I wanna go! LOL!
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Lead me not into temptation ... follow me, I know a shortcut!
As the poets have mournfully sung,
death takes the innocent young,
the rolling in money,
the screamingly funny,
and those who are very well hung.
Your days are numbered - 26,280 per person on average - 2,000,000,000 heartbeats ... tick, tick, tick
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11-10-2009, 10:02 AM
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#666
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: ∞ ∞ //▲▲\\ ∞ ∞
Posts: 4,618
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I was going through a really odd moment last night.....I kept wanting to find really weird websites and kind of traumatized myself....
I think I'm going to start a thread...
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11-10-2009, 10:24 AM
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#667
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Athens, Greece
Posts: 664
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I finally finished my essay!
Now I can start worrying about the next one...
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11-10-2009, 01:45 PM
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#668
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Gallifrey
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Originally Posted by Apathy's_Child
How long have you guys been together? If you're the sensitive type (you don't seem particularly prone to puss-hurt on here, but maybe you have a different approach to IRL relationships so it's worth asking), it could be that what you're interpreting as boredom really just means that he's grown comfortable enough to drop the gestures we often perform when we're trying to make an initial connection with somebody.
"Romance" as defined by popular culture is mostly bullshit. Then again, that may not be relevant here, depending on how you're defining it. When you say the romance is waning, do you mean that he no longer goes out of his way to buy gifts for you and take you out to nice places, or that he is no longer considerate in general everyday life and doesn't seem to care whether he spends time with you or not? Whether he really is bored with you depends completely upon how the behavior that leads you to this conclusion is manifesting.
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We've been together for nine months so far. When I say romance I mean that we don't act like we used to, all lovely dovey huggy huggy smoochy smoochy.
Thanks for the advice and stuff, urrbody.
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11-10-2009, 01:48 PM
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#669
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Sheffield UK.
Posts: 2,065
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I've come to the conclusion that I'm a rather hateful individual, which I don't really care about, but I'm running out of booze and cigarettes...
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11-10-2009, 04:01 PM
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#670
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Join Date: Sep 2009
Location: SO-IL
Posts: 410
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Originally Posted by Still Jack
I've come to the conclusion that I'm a rather hateful individual, which I don't really care about, but I'm running out of booze and cigarettes...
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You've never come across as "Woah, that guy is waaay tooo fucking hateful" to me. Being out of booze and cigarettes constitutes a completely valid reason to be mad, anyway. I've only ever seen awesomeness come out of your hate on this board.
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11-11-2009, 03:50 PM
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#671
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Join Date: Dec 2004
Location: Cali
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My roommate and her boy are being adorably stupid. I don't really mind but they keep trying to include me in their conversation so that I don't feel left out but I honestly think I would be happier being left out.
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11-11-2009, 04:46 PM
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#672
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Dirty South
Posts: 1,726
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Originally Posted by Still Jack
I've come to the conclusion that I'm a rather hateful individual, which I don't really care about, but I'm running out of booze and cigarettes...
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It's ok to hate people, as long as you don't discriminate based on race, religion, gender, or sexual orientation. Everything else is fair game.
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11-11-2009, 05:17 PM
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#673
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Join Date: Apr 2009
Location: Dirty South
Posts: 1,726
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Kill your idol. Come on, jump into the void!
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11-11-2009, 07:40 PM
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#674
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Join Date: Oct 2009
Location: Melbourne, Australia
Posts: 321
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Finished my History of Revolutions 3/4 Exam today. woot 
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11-11-2009, 07:55 PM
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#675
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Join Date: Aug 2009
Location: ∞ ∞ //▲▲\\ ∞ ∞
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I got home and saw that someone finished off all of my banana nut bread...seriously???
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