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Old 06-04-2011, 08:25 AM   #5851
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I have a Magic Bullet.
The first few weeks I had it I blended everything I saw. Haha
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Old 06-04-2011, 03:56 PM   #5852
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I have a Magic Bullet.
The first few weeks I had it I blended everything I saw. Haha
Are they good? I'm not sure about the money... I'll have to wait until I get a job to buy one.

HT - I have discovered that if you use a hand mixer, and then leave the protien shake in the fridge that eventually the protien sinks into the water and after about 1hr it's dissolved in the water.

My rant. Mr Bat and I had a major blow yesterday. it was massive. The kind that breaks a relationship.
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Old 06-04-2011, 05:54 PM   #5853
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I'd say it works pretty well.
How much are they?
I got mine as a gift. Haha

The woman who cut my hair was a moron and didn't even it out at all, so the back is shorter than the front. She also cut my bangs far too short when she did my face frame.
Good thing I just straighten it all and it looks about one length, and I'm also expecting my dreads to arrive in the mail soon, so I can put those in.
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Old 06-04-2011, 11:25 PM   #5854
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I'm considering flaking out on an old friend's ordination tomorrow, because I feel gross and ugly and I don't want to ruin her pictures. She's not really expecting me, but I feel bad because I told her I really wanted to go.
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Old 06-05-2011, 05:36 AM   #5855
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The woman who cut my hair was a moron and didn't even it out at all, so the back is shorter than the front. She also cut my bangs far too short when she did my face frame.
There is a reason I refuse to let a hairdresser anywhere near my head with a pair of scissors. I've allowed one to dye it once though. They never listen .

The last time I asked for a haircut I was ten years old. I said I didn't want it too short, just a couple of inches at most to really get rid of the dead ends and make it grow better.

She hacked it into a horrifically short "bob" - and I use that term in the loosest sense - and I ended up looking like a boy.
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Old 06-05-2011, 09:21 AM   #5856
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I don't much mind it I suppose, as my hair grows fast and I will be wearing dreads extensions most of the time.
But it was like she literally pulled my hair behind my head, bindered it off, chopped it above the elastic, and then sent me on my way.
I'm indifferent about my hair right now.
It just sort of is.
I don't really like that I feel that way about it, but there's not much I can do about it now. Hah
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Old 06-05-2011, 11:24 AM   #5857
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Old 06-05-2011, 02:34 PM   #5858
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My rant. Mr Bat and I had a major blow yesterday. it was massive. The kind that breaks a relationship.
I hope you can work it out if it's not too dire. Relationships can take a ton of beating and still be strong.
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Old 06-05-2011, 08:45 PM   #5859
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I'd say it works pretty well.
How much are they?
I got mine as a gift. Haha

The woman who cut my hair was a moron and didn't even it out at all, so the back is shorter than the front. She also cut my bangs far too short when she did my face frame.
Good thing I just straighten it all and it looks about one length, and I'm also expecting my dreads to arrive in the mail soon, so I can put those in.
I think they were advertising them for about $100 or around that figure... I dunno I saw it for two seconds on the infomercial.

Yeah hairdressers are hit and miss.

Graus - I'm tired of hitting my head against the brick wall that is Mr Bat. We just aren't working.
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Old 06-05-2011, 08:51 PM   #5860
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It's a headline that there were no executions today over here.
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Old 06-05-2011, 08:55 PM   #5861
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Are they good? I'm not sure about the money... I'll have to wait until I get a job to buy one.

HT - I have discovered that if you use a hand mixer, and then leave the protien shake in the fridge that eventually the protien sinks into the water and after about 1hr it's dissolved in the water.

My rant. Mr Bat and I had a major blow yesterday. it was massive. The kind that breaks a relationship.
Major, massive?

Like it is said below, i hope it works out, but; do you want to tell more?
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Old 06-06-2011, 09:24 PM   #5862
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Major, massive?

Like it is said below, i hope it works out, but; do you want to tell more?
Oh it went along the lines of:

Fruity: You need to lift your game. (tells him how I'm really feeling)
Mr Bat: (Mocks my feelings.)
Fruity: Goes off a little about how that makes me feel.
MrBat: I hate you when you are a nagging bitch.
Fruity: I don't like you anymore.

We haven't really spoken since.

I'm still wearing my superwoman cape and he's still wearing his slacker of the year medallion, so it changed nothing.
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Old 06-06-2011, 10:26 PM   #5863
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Old 06-07-2011, 09:10 AM   #5864
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Old 06-07-2011, 12:30 PM   #5865
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Old 06-07-2011, 06:45 PM   #5866
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Old 06-07-2011, 07:48 PM   #5867
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Fruitbat, I'm sorry, hun.

My rant: Those stupid 'Teen Wolf' pictures at the top of every page/section! I installed an adblock, but I'm guessing that they are a bit of annoyance that must be suffered through for the time being.
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Old 06-08-2011, 05:00 AM   #5868
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Because I'm so skint I can only afford rice oven chips and assorted other vegetables. meat is just too expensive .
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Old 06-08-2011, 10:35 AM   #5869
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Get to know a farmer. Most of them suffer rabbit infestations , and would more than likely be quite happy to provide you with free rabbit and probably wood pigeon .

Either that or sign up for that new game show, Compete for the meat ( in which you literally do win a huge frozen chicken or something )
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Old 06-08-2011, 10:52 AM   #5870
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Oh it went along the lines of:

Fruity: You need to lift your game. (tells him how I'm really feeling)
Mr Bat: (Mocks my feelings.)
Fruity: Goes off a little about how that makes me feel.
MrBat: I hate you when you are a nagging bitch.
Fruity: I don't like you anymore.

We haven't really spoken since.

I'm still wearing my superwoman cape and he's still wearing his slacker of the year medallion, so it changed nothing.
OUCH! I'm not a big fan of ultimatums (blackmail is always ugly), but if it looks like the relationship is really going in the tank, you might suggest counseling and if he resists you could tell him it's counseling or it's the highway.

Because most of these things boil down to communication. And right now you need him to hear your concerns and he's blowing it off as nagging. The more he deflects what you're trying to tell him you need, the more you have to say it and the more he perceives you are "nagging". So you reach an impasse.

And it will probably take a third party to communicate to him that it really is in his own best interest to be a better listener, and to work with you to develop better communication skills. Things like learning to speak in "I feel" and "I need" statements. Hell, in time he might even get better at asking for what he wants (if he's a typical, emotionally-blunted male) without it being a personal attack.

Anyway, I'm optimistic that you can find a path through this that gets you where your heart wants to be. You got together with this man for good reasons; I'm hopeful that you can remind yourself and him of those reasons while telling him what you need.
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Old 06-08-2011, 02:51 PM   #5871
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Because I'm so skint I can only afford rice oven chips and assorted other vegetables. meat is just too expensive .
Can you afford a can of coconut milk? I got a flu and I'm too sick to cook much, so I made a big pot of coconut curried veggies and its heavenly, I made it Sunday and I'm not halfway through yet.
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Good idea. cheers.
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Old 06-08-2011, 11:50 PM   #5873
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Another mate of mine wants to bring a different bimbo girl to party this time.
I wish with all my fucking power that my guys could pick more interesting, smart, good-looking girls to get with and ask to party, because these ones are just not working for anyone.
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Old 06-09-2011, 05:45 AM   #5874
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OUCH! I'm not a big fan of ultimatums (blackmail is always ugly), but if it looks like the relationship is really going in the tank, you might suggest counseling and if he resists you could tell him it's counseling or it's the highway.

Because most of these things boil down to communication. And right now you need him to hear your concerns and he's blowing it off as nagging. The more he deflects what you're trying to tell him you need, the more you have to say it and the more he perceives you are "nagging". So you reach an impasse.

And it will probably take a third party to communicate to him that it really is in his own best interest to be a better listener, and to work with you to develop better communication skills. Things like learning to speak in "I feel" and "I need" statements. Hell, in time he might even get better at asking for what he wants (if he's a typical, emotionally-blunted male) without it being a personal attack.

Anyway, I'm optimistic that you can find a path through this that gets you where your heart wants to be. You got together with this man for good reasons; I'm hopeful that you can remind yourself and him of those reasons while telling him what you need.
Ah thanks Ben, but I'm afraid to say that I can say "I feel" and "I need" a million times but if he isn't playing by the same rules, it doesn't work.

The ultimatum was:

Fruity: I'm not coping, I need help. i have to dig deep, blah, blah, blah.
Mr Bat: *laughs* digging deep, sure.

Fuck it. I am over relationships.
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Old 06-09-2011, 05:57 AM   #5875
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You need a coke binge and a lot of JD.
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