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03-26-2009, 04:36 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Lansing, Iowa. Come visit me, yes, no?
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I am so confused.
---- PLEASE DO NOT JUDGE ME OR MAKE PRESUMPTIONS BEFORE READING, THANK YOU ----
Did you ever find that you are friends with someone, good, good friends. And all of a sudden, FOR NO REASON AT ALL, she stops talking to you? COMPLETELY. And furthermore she starts talking shit about you. And before you know it she's friends with one of my enemies and they laugh and mock at me every time I pass by them.
WTF is this just human nature of some strange people? I'm more confused than angry.
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but someday i'll steal your car and switch the gears
and drive that cherokee straight off this trail of tears
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03-26-2009, 04:38 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: In the Desert
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It happens, but you'll get over it.
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03-26-2009, 04:41 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Lansing, Iowa. Come visit me, yes, no?
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But I want to know WHY? Is it really me? Perhaps I am doing something without even knowing. Or could it just be the type of person she is? I am not upset. Shes a stupid fucking bitch and if she's gonna do something like that then I don't want her nasty ass anyway. But I still would like to know why?
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but someday i'll steal your car and switch the gears
and drive that cherokee straight off this trail of tears
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03-26-2009, 04:42 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2007
Location: In the Desert
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It could be the piss fetish, you don't call your friends baby or darling, do you?
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03-26-2009, 05:18 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Sometimes home, more time away.
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Don't be angry, there must be a reason. You do tend to come across as pretty shallow and immature, with a really warped sense of reality. Good on you for having your own reality by the way. Have you tried asking her why?
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03-26-2009, 05:30 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2007
Location: Heaven and Earth
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Pull her aside and talk to her about it. Nonviolently.
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03-26-2009, 05:32 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: All in your mind and things.
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I was kind of hoping to see how Duane would handle this.
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03-26-2009, 05:49 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Earth
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Unimatrix 00
---- PLEASE DO NOT JUDGE ME OR MAKE PRESUMPTIONS BEFORE READING, THANK YOU ----
Did you ever find that you are friends with someone, good, good friends. And all of a sudden, FOR NO REASON AT ALL, she stops talking to you? COMPLETELY. And furthermore she starts talking shit about you. And before you know it she's friends with one of my enemies and they laugh and mock at me every time I pass by them.
WTF is this just human nature of some strange people? I'm more confused than angry.
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Well, it is a real shame when that happens. But a good thing that comes out of this is that you now know who are your true friends and who are just grinning
dipshits who don't have the spine to tell you what is really wrong.
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03-26-2009, 07:26 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Posts: 30
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Tam Li Hua
Pull her aside and talk to her about it. Nonviolently.
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fuck that shit! y'all need to beat her bitch ass and crack open her skull. theres a reason i ain't got no haters ^_^
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03-26-2009, 07:43 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Sometimes home, more time away.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Lakita in the House!
fuck that shit! y'all need to beat her bitch ass and crack open her skull. theres a reason i ain't got no haters ^_^
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Fuck yeah girrl! Everyone's too 'fraid to hate on y'all, you got respect!
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03-26-2009, 09:38 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Tokyo, Japan
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Originally Posted by Unimatrix 00
But I want to know WHY? Is it really me? Perhaps I am doing something without even knowing. Or could it just be the type of person she is?
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You're in a better position to know than we are. It sounds like the type of story I hear from my younger sister's life. You aren't by any chance in the junior high to highschool age range, are you?
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03-27-2009, 08:12 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2008
Location: Perth, Western Australia
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Unimatrix 00
But I want to know WHY? Is it really me? Perhaps I am doing something without even knowing. Or could it just be the type of person she is? I am not upset. Shes a stupid fucking bitch and if she's gonna do something like that then I don't want her nasty ass anyway. But I still would like to know why?
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Suddenly ditching someone would be a great way of empowering yourself. You are able to hurt someone really badly with minimum of effort. Id say that she ditched you because she needed an ego boost or didnt think you were "worthy" of her friendship. Choose your friends wisely and dont trust anyone is my advice to you.
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03-27-2009, 08:49 AM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Earth
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Lakita in the House!
fuck that shit! y'all need to beat her bitch ass and crack open her skull. theres a reason i ain't got no haters ^_^
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*grunt* get the club *grunt* *grunt* *scratch armpit*
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03-27-2009, 01:48 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Location: Lansing, Iowa. Come visit me, yes, no?
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Thank you people for the advice! hehehe Lakita those days are over for me. WORDS are my weapons now.
I suppose I'll take this lady aside and talk to her, see why she is doing this to me. I don't want to be friends again with her anymore though. haha! x
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but someday i'll steal your car and switch the gears
and drive that cherokee straight off this trail of tears
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03-27-2009, 04:20 PM
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Earth
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Originally Posted by Unimatrix 00
Thank you people for the advice! hehehe Lakita those days are over for me. WORDS are my weapons now.
I suppose I'll take this lady aside and talk to her, see why she is doing this to me. I don't want to be friends again with her anymore though. haha! x
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Yeah, try to work it out like two rational people. That is a good idea Unimatrix. You will get further that way.
But bloodthirsty nuts like Lakita tend to reach for a firearm when they come up against a minor social problem. In her case, she will resort to cannibalism fairly quickly as evidenced by the threat filled letter she sent me. It is a part of her natural "charactor". She wants to eat my brain like the waddymellon the she craves but can't afford because she blew all of her cash on crack cocaine and assgrease.
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03-27-2009, 07:44 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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Originally Posted by Opteron_Man
Yeah, try to work it out like two rational people. That is a good idea Unimatrix. You will get further that way.
But bloodthirsty nuts like Lakita tend to reach for a firearm when they come up against a minor social problem. In her case, she will resort to cannibalism fairly quickly as evidenced by the threat filled letter she sent me. It is a part of her natural "charactor". She wants to eat my brain like the waddymellon the she craves but can't afford because she blew all of her cash on crack cocaine and assgrease.
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Wow.
That's really not ok.
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03-27-2009, 07:55 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
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I just noticed your signature. Who is BT?
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03-27-2009, 08:38 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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It's badteccy.
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03-27-2009, 08:39 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: New England
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That's life...
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03-27-2009, 08:40 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: In Antarctica with the Penguins
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UO has her own rep points! hehe
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Droppin' knowledge since 1986.
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03-27-2009, 09:02 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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Originally Posted by Mr E Nigma
UO has her own rep points! hehe
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Hahaha, yeah.
I liked it too much to let it go.
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03-27-2009, 09:07 PM
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Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 3,360
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U0O is Unimatrix I presume? Not fair. She deserves a higher numerical value. She can't help being the way she is, from what I can tell. The Olympics and the Paralympics are separate events for a reason.
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03-27-2009, 09:28 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Earth.
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Mir
U0O is Unimatrix I presume? Not fair. She deserves a higher numerical value. She can't help being the way she is, from what I can tell. The Olympics and the Paralympics are separate events for a reason.
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Hahaha.
Well she's staying, and so is her rep. Unless of course I change it.
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03-28-2009, 03:34 PM
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Location: Athens, GA
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I actually have had a friend cease communications with me, and I discovered from her boyfriend that she had been talking shit about me behind my back. Enraged, I sent her an angry and hateful message online because it was the beginning of fall break and I would not see her for a week. That just caused a shitstorm and led to my 2-year harassment in high school after she thought it clever to tell a large number of people that I said certain individuals that had died over the course of the year deserved to die. I really loved high school.
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"Don't ever let anybody teach you to think, Lance: it is the curse of the world." - King Arthur in T.H. White's The Once And Future King
"Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you" The Bible (Matthew 7:12)
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03-28-2009, 10:51 PM
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Join Date: Mar 2009
Location: Compton
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Quote:
Originally Posted by Unimatrix 00
---- PLEASE DO NOT JUDGE ME OR MAKE PRESUMPTIONS BEFORE READING, THANK YOU ----
Did you ever find that you are friends with someone, good, good friends. And all of a sudden, FOR NO REASON AT ALL, she stops talking to you? COMPLETELY. And furthermore she starts talking shit about you. And before you know it she's friends with one of my enemies and they laugh and mock at me every time I pass by them.
WTF is this just human nature of some strange people? I'm more confused than angry.
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Just ignore her, when you act like the bigger person, people will see you as such. And, I may be judging you too fast but you need to worry less about what people think about you 
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