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Old 12-19-2008, 02:08 PM   #26
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Old 12-19-2008, 02:08 PM   #27
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But suicide is for pussies.
I don't believe in suicide personally, but there are some people who live in such pain that suicide is a viable option. Perhaps one should not judge them, and call them names, simply because one does not agree with their particular course of action.

I am not saying that the individual who started this thread is among the group for whom suicide is a viable option, but it is for some.

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Old 12-19-2008, 02:34 PM   #28
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I don't believe in suicide personally, but there are some people who live in such pain that suicide is a viable option.
I understand that, but those some people are most probably not the type that have internet access to join a goth community for suicide tips.
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Old 12-19-2008, 02:48 PM   #29
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Why do you want to kill yourself? Seriously.

Different people believe different things with regards to Christianity.

The traditional interpretation is that if one kills themselves then they will go to hell.

A more modern revisionist theorist believe's one would be forgiven for committing suicide.

As a member of a terminally ill community, I can tell you suicide is talked about often, and there is a couple of ways to accomplish your goal, but I would not advise it.

If you look hard enough I am positive that you have something to live for.
I'm being abused and I can't get out of it any other way.
If I keep living then it will simply go on into the day I die, so I much rather decide on the day and do it now.
The whole religion thing has me stuck though, I don't know what to believe. =/

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Old 12-19-2008, 02:48 PM   #30
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I understand that, but those some people are most probably not the type that have internet access to join a goth community for suicide tips.

Your deduction is a very reasonable one, Godslayer, but fortunately incorrect.

In fact many of my fellow Cystic Fibrosis kin have internet access, even when in the hospital. Many hospitals have special areas just for such things, as well as special accommodations, because being stuck in the hospital, especially if one is all alone can be very depressing and demoralizing.

In fact, there may be more Cystics or other terminal patients perusing these gothic pages than you think, they just may not have created profiles. I can’t speak for all terminally ill patients, but for many Cystics, the theme of being damned is common, and therefore there is an attraction to the Gothic Culture.


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Old 12-19-2008, 02:50 PM   #31
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I'm being abused and I can't get out of it any other way.
If I keep living then it will simply go on into the day I die, so I much rather decide on the day and do it now.
The whole religion thing has me stuck though, I don't know what to believe. =/

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There are a lot of organisations out there that are purely to help people through abuse.
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Old 12-19-2008, 02:51 PM   #32
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How old are you? This is important because it may effect the services available to you.

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Old 12-19-2008, 02:56 PM   #33
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Can I start a betting pool for when the goofball offs himself?


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Old 12-19-2008, 02:57 PM   #34
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@JCC~ but I'm not the only one, all my brothers & sisters too, they'll most likely end up in a foster home at one of those organizations, but in my death things will change and my mother may grow strong enough to finally move on.

@Darkly~ I don't think a service can help, it's not that simple you see.
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Old 12-19-2008, 02:58 PM   #35
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Ok, 3-1 odds that it goes down on New Years Eve.
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Old 12-19-2008, 02:59 PM   #36
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@JCC~ but I'm not the only one, all my brothers & sisters too, they'll most likely end up in a foster home at one of those organizations, but in my death things will change and my mother may grow strong enough to finally move on..
If it does anything, it'll only crush her and put more stress on her. There are plenty of places to go for anonymous advice, which means that they can't take any action that you don't want them to, just talk to you about your current situation, which I think you need before you think about doing something like this.
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Old 12-19-2008, 03:01 PM   #37
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Old 12-19-2008, 03:02 PM   #38
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but in my death things will change.
Not likely. In fact, if you remove yourself, then you're demanding from your family to take initiative when you yourself couldn't do it, and demand even more effort as they also have to do your part.
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Old 12-19-2008, 03:02 PM   #39
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Chapel,

It never is, but your best option is still to seek help. Find someone you can talk with a teacher, a freind, a parent, a doctor, etc.


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Old 12-19-2008, 03:04 PM   #40
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10-1 odds it happens Groundhog's Day.
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Old 12-19-2008, 03:07 PM   #41
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100-1 it doesn't happen until July 4, 2009.
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Old 12-19-2008, 03:08 PM   #42
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At first I had a knee jerk reaction and assumed you were an attention seeker.

But in all honesty you should report it to the authorities,because in any case it's better than the alternative solution.
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Old 12-19-2008, 03:23 PM   #43
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If you are honestly considering suicide, make sure you think long and hard about it first. It's not something that can be taken back.

Reporting it to the authorities would be an excellent option. I would at least see what happens with that before considering suicide any further.
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Old 12-19-2008, 03:29 PM   #44
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Old 12-19-2008, 04:25 PM   #45
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I was going to keep my mouth shut on this one, but since several others have already spilled the beans... there is no hell. The reason your parents and preacher lie so convincingly is that they believe their own lies, but they're still wrong.

Anyway, don't kill yourself. "You're too yooouuuunng!!!!" lol. Seriously though. You are. Missing out on your 20s would be insane.
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Old 12-19-2008, 04:36 PM   #46
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[I'm serious] I would've committed suicide long go if it wasn't for the fear of burning in hell, so I need to know away around it. Thank you.^^
I talked to Jesus, he totally gets you. As Nike said, "Just do it". Seriously, I totally comped you, go ahead man. It's all good.


On a side note, you're a total fucking idiot.
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Old 12-19-2008, 06:40 PM   #47
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Call social services. If your mother is abusing you and your siblings, why would you want her to "get better"? Are you going to leave your siblings behind to endure that shit? I certainly hope that...
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Old 12-19-2008, 06:47 PM   #48
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It's based on your belief. I dont believe people who kill themselves go to hell.I believe now is the hell....... at any rate I dont think you should kill yourself but its your own belief thet you would have to change if you want to avoid hell I think.
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Old 12-19-2008, 07:03 PM   #49
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@JCC~ but I'm not the only one, all my brothers & sisters too, they'll most likely end up in a foster home at one of those organizations, but in my death things will change and my mother may grow strong enough to finally move on.

@Darkly~ I don't think a service can help, it's not that simple you see.
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In your death you will crush your mother with financial burdens and the knowledge that she failed as a parent. Funerals aren't cheap, and even in the unlikely scenario that you're insured, its void if you commit suicide. With the extra stress your siblings may very well get more abuse.

Abuse can't go on for the rest of your life, you can pull the plug now by notifiying the authorities.
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Old 12-19-2008, 07:09 PM   #50
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That made me laugh!

You're fucked up . Or am I for getting that referance?
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