If your boyfriend can't accept who you are, that's his problem, not yours. Being goth is not just a fashion you follow, it's a lifestyle, and you won't be happy if you're always compromising what you feel and want for someone else.
I went out with a guy who didn't like my style or my interests a couple of years ago. We broke up after about a month and it was one of the best decisions I've ever made. I'm not saying that you have to break up with your boyfriend; if you can agree that will be wonderful. But ultimately, if you can't you won't be happy together, so it may be for the best. He doesn't have to be goth too, just somebody who understands and accepts you.
I wish you the best of luck.
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