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Old 04-13-2008, 10:14 AM   #51
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I know, but I don't just search out people of a certain race.
Yes you do. You've been describing it for two pages.
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Old 04-13-2008, 10:19 AM   #52
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No I don't. Did you not read when I said that the guy doesn't -have- to be Asian?
I do NOT seek out ONE specific race. I don't care if he's White or Asian or Egyptian or whatever.
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Being multicultural really isn't all that fun. Trust me. I'm Lebanese, Italian, and Irish.
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Old 04-13-2008, 10:28 AM   #54
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Being multicultural really isn't all that fun. Trust me. I'm Lebanese, Italian, and Irish.
Hm, I see.
I suppose I wouldn't know...
but I have some things to think about.
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Old 04-13-2008, 10:32 AM   #55
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The question is: Is there a specific asian boy you're attracted to ? if it's not the case I most say I don't find black-asian couples so cute, but I guess that when it comes to love nothing matters, it's not impossible either. well, I don't feel attracted to black or asian guys, but it's not because I'm racist or something. wish you luck finding your asian Romeo.
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Old 04-13-2008, 10:35 AM   #56
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The question is: Is there a specific asian boy you're attracted to ? if it's not the case I most say I don't find black-asian couples so cute, but I guess that when it comes to love nothing matters, well, I don't feel attracted to black or asian guys, but it's not because I'm racist or something. wish you luck finding you asian love.
Ha, thanks.
Well, I'm not exactly interested anymore because I haven't seen him in three years. He was Korean, but I still wonder if he would have liked me. I don't ponder it often, but it crosses my mind every once in a blue moon.
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Old 04-13-2008, 11:49 AM   #57
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So, what's this other race you keep speaking of? Last time I checked, we're all capable of producing children only with other humans...

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So, what's this other race you keep speaking of? Last time I checked, we're all capable of producing children only with other humans...

Evil green man-eating aliens from Jupiter. lol
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Old 04-13-2008, 12:51 PM   #59
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Being multicultural really isn't all that fun. Trust me. I'm Lebanese, Italian, and Irish.
Yeah, try being Scottish, Irish, Maltese, Italian, French and English.
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Yeah... I'm just white. :-/ I'm so bland. Heh.
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Yeah... I'm just white. :-/ I'm so bland. Heh.
And I'm just black. Bland, eh?
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I'm German, Polish and more German. I'm practicly the poster child for the Aryan race, white blonde hair, dark blue eyes. I've been called a Nazi before and I hate Nazis!!!!! Fucking bitches!!
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I'm German, Polish and more German. I'm practicly the poster child for the Aryan race, white blonde hair, dark blue eyes. I've been called a Nazi before and I hate Nazis!!!!! Fucking bitches!!
It's weird how those of German origin are called "Nazi's," a hate group, but most other hate groups are ignored, I've noticed. No one has ever called me a Black Separatist.
I'm sorry that ignorant fools call you such things.
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I've gotten the "Nazi" comment before. Rather pissed me off, considering I'm of Polish descent...
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Old 04-13-2008, 02:35 PM   #65
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"no ones ever called me a Black Separatist"

LOL

Some one called me a "socialist Bitch" a couple of days ago....
I found it funny.



I believe myslef to be almost completely without Racism. I've lived in many different cultures and it made it quite easy for me to embrace most people/races/ethnicities.
But I do notice that I have some bias against "the white man". I sometimes have to laugh at myself.
I while ago I was thinking about it, and I dont think I would ever have kids whoth a white guy. Or I would prefer not to. And different people n my family have said different things to me about it. Mo mom says as long as he isnt racially/culturally ignorant then its okay. And someone else told me I shouldnt have kids with a white guy because of the "history" of what white men have done to Black woman.
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Old 04-13-2008, 02:37 PM   #66
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"no ones ever called me a Black Separatist"

LOL

Some one called me a "socialist Bitch" a couple of days ago....
I found it funny.



I believe myslef to be almost completely without Racism. I've lived in many different cultures and it made it quite easy for me to embrace most people/races/ethnicities.
But I do notice that I have some bias against "the white man". I sometimes have to laugh at myself.
I while ago I was thinking about it, and I dont think I would ever have kids whoth a white guy. Or I would prefer not to. And different people n my family have said different things to me about it. Mo mom says as long as he isnt racially/culturally ignorant then its okay. And someone else told me I shouldnt have kids with a white guy because of the "history" of what white men have done to Black woman.
Really? Hmm, not that it's planned but both of the boyfriends I've ever had were white. Haha My parents give me hard time about it though..
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Old 04-13-2008, 02:47 PM   #67
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I believe myslef to be almost completely without Racism.
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But I do notice that I have some bias against "the white man". I sometimes have to laugh at myself.
I while ago I was thinking about it, and I dont think I would ever have kids whoth a white guy. Or I would prefer not to. And different people n my family have said different things to me about it. Mo mom says as long as he isnt racially/culturally ignorant then its okay. And someone else told me I shouldnt have kids with a white guy because of the "history" of what white men have done to Black woman.
... You're an idiot.
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Old 04-13-2008, 02:49 PM   #68
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I've never dated a white guy. Although I did date a white girl, it ended badly her political ideas are just to far from mine. She supports dictatorship and genocide (when needed).

My little sister likes white surfer boys.skaters. Thats her type I guess. And it annoys me because she dismisses black guys completely. Not that she should be looking at guys at all.

Although for most of our lives we had very few positive Black men in our lives.

And the fact that you've only dated white guys could be locational. I know where you live and Im guessing its mostly white people in your area?

I think a big thing that affects who you dat is what you saw growing up.
For the longest time I said I would never ever ever have kids, because almost all of the women in my family were single mothers. Almost all of my peers were raised without fathers. And I had almost never seen that it could be different, at least not for people like us.
My dad is a piece of shit, as most men seemed to be. But now I think I've had a chance to see a few succesful two parent famillies. And I realize its possable. I still dont think I really want kids completely, btu my BF is so I think about it.
But I've developed a bit of a complex. About men and how they always seem to walk out on their babies. I refuse to be a babies mama. I think I grew up with negative images of Black men being the norm, at least once I moved to the mainland. But now that I am generally around some really strong dedicated revolutionary type "mothafuckas" (inside joke) I cant really see myself wanting to be with anyone who isnt a person of color.
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Being multicultural really isn't all that fun. Trust me. I'm Lebanese, Italian, and Irish.
Apparently I think people of Lebanese, Italian, and Irish ancestry are pretty hot, then.

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I cant really see myself wanting to be with anyone who isnt a person of color.
Everyone's a person of color. See, I could almost understand your point of view, save for one sole error: You assume paradigms among individuals.
Having a bias against "the white man" is not as bad when the above error is not made. The white man indeed is the epitome of oppression and privilege in this world. This is indeed a WASP world. Some anarchists shout "kill whitey" and they are justified to say that, even if they themselves are white.
But this is only because The White Man is a justified personification of societal evils. Slandering the white man for oppression is no worse than using the words "right" to express virtue and "sinister" for evil when these are hints of discrimination against lefties in most languages. It is no worse than equating darkness to evil and light to God.
But what you have said is that you shift these into specific individuals, making you prejudiced.
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And the fact that you've only dated white guys could be locational. I know where you live and Im guessing its mostly white people in your area?
Actually, it's pretty evenly mixed, I think. I'm around black people most of the time, but that's mostly my family's fault. (lol, joking about the "fault" part.)
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Old 04-13-2008, 03:18 PM   #72
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"I cant really see myself wanting to be with anyone who isnt a person of color."

I don't think someones race should make one dwarf-sphincter of difference. Far better to base it all on personality than skin colour.
It's like refusing to date someone with blue eyes. Or someone who comes from Essex. Just because a man with blue eyes once did something bad, or someone from essex walked out.
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I am sorry for the error.

Edit: I cant really see myself wanting to be with anyone who is white.

Does that make it any better?

I shift it onto specific individuals which makes me prejudiced?
I can see why you would think this. And I think that yes I do have some prejudice. I try to keep myself in check and not allow it to fuck with my choices and judgment. Generally speaking I often times assume things about white people simply because they are white.
Allot of times my assumptions are correct.

Although I do largely base my biases onmy own experience. And I have had allot of experience with white people. I am part white even though I like to forget it sometimes.
Some of the people I have been closest with happened to be white. And despite how much I loved as friends so much that I would consider them family, they believed and did things that were not okay with me. And they did and believed these things because they have been raised as white people in Amerikkka and thats not their fault really.
So not all white people are this way and not all white people are responsible. But being white I think makes you more likely to be like that.
If I were to meet a white guy that I felt completely understood (or at least tried to) what the experience of being Non white is then I would be with him.
I would probably date a white guy now. Because I feel I know who I am . And I dont think his ignorance or what ever else will effect me as much. But I wont have kids with someone who I feel doesnt understand the struggle that I have had to deal with, and that our kids will more than likely have to deal with.
I have friends who are white and sometimes hey say things that I think are racist. And they dont even know that what they are saying is wrong. It makes me sad that I can be close with someone but that they have been indoctrinated with these ideas that I feel are harmful to my people. I dont even see how I can really be mad at these friends. They dont do it on purpose. But they just cant understand. My reality is to far removed from theirs.
SO yeah being white (in my opinion) predisposes you to be privileged (not just monetarily) and hold some view or beliefs that are not friendly or even racist. And Im not just talking about rich white people. Because I’ve been around every one from the “trailer trash” to the kid born with the silver spoon.
I feel more comfortable with my “trailer trash” friend. Because I guess they get it more then the rich kid. But still they even though are close to being in the same boat as many of use are still a little brainwashed.
I can remember who said this. Maybe MLK? It was along the lines of: Segregation isn’t just for Black people, it is also for the poor white man. The poor man is made to believe that even if he goes hungry, even if he is kept from the better things in life, at least he is better then the Blacks. At least he has the privilege of being white.
I can still see how this is true.
I find it easier to deal with a big mouthed bigot then a “decent” person who is unaware of the racism in their ideas. It simply hurts too much for a friend to say things that are racist, without knowing it, I’ve gotten into fights with my friends over this shit. And it is simply easier for me to be with people who know what I know.
I can honestly say I’ve only ever met maybe 4 white people in my whole life who understood. And who I could be completely open with.
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I suppose its less about the actual physical parts of race. The biology doesnt matter that much really.

Its the social/mental effects etc.
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I suppose its less about the actual physical parts of race. The biology doesnt matter that much really.

Its the social/mental effects etc.
Really? I must say... I have a big fetish with small pink lips and Asian/White hair. And I'm extremely attracted to pale milky skin lol.
But don't get me wrong. I like my own skin tone as well..
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